The simpliest of words can open up the Scars of wounds that should have long since healed -It seems that one can never tell such longevity
Yea, that is very true. I happen to find in those situations that the more inner peace and tranquility that I have built up during the good and okay times, the faster I am able to get over it when the wound is re-opened. I can calm myself down and snap myself out of old hurts hurting pretty fast now... but not fast enough ever being that they can hurt out of the blue.
Sometimes it can also serve as a reminder of where you are never willing to go again. That can be a great motivator.