Hi. I'm a 29 year old woman, married with 2 kids. Just on here mainly on the sex posts looking for tips to spice things up hubby is a bit reserved so I'm trying to slip the kinky stuff in slowly. Any tips? Thanks
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Hi and Welcome. A couple of tips I can give you as being a more reserved person myself. My partner is the opposite ! . Watch some movies together on video perhaps after cooking a nice dinner for him . Obviously the kids would need to be tucked up in bed. Nine and a Half weeks would be a good starter. Whilst its quite old its coverage on the use of a blindfold is superb and gives plenty of ideas as to what could be done. He will not be able to resist Kim Bassenger , probably at her nicest then. The blindfold would be a good way of introducing Kink as what we did . Plenty of chocolate covered strawberries, Yummy . Now how innocent is that ? Don't forget to swap roles as well .Avoid porn as its too hardcore unless you are both comfortable in watching it together . Another way is to view a Sex Toy retailer on the computer together . My partner chose Love Honey as it sells zillions of interesting sexy lingerie but there are also lots of sex toys to view as well. A body wand would be a good investment as it is a superb couples toy and can be used solo as well . You could try and introduce that with the blindfold for a truly sensual experience . Once the ice is broken you can progress on and discuss things with each other. It won't happen over night but in time things will change slowly. Good luck .
Very cool Rebecca, to have the moxie to take the reigns and seek advice to spice things up!!! I admire that - really. Your husband is VERY LUCKY!! Mysteron has a couple good ideas above. Also - try slowly edging him, if you haven't done that already. Tease, delay ……….. tease, delay, etc. Only let him cum when YOU decide to allow it. Pressure cooker!!! Try prostate massage on him. Finger or vibrator will send him into orbit, and you can stroke him manually or orally while doing the prostate stimulation. Or do while 69-ing. Have him give you a nice, all-over-body massage with soft music playing - and finish it with manual & oral pleasuring of your sweet spots until you have several orgasms. Can use a vibe as well, and follow with him inside you. Convince him to let you tie his hands behind his back. Then put a blindfold on him so he CANNOT see. Then leave the room for a few minutes. Come back in and tell him you brought a girlfriend along this time and she's going to get him all excited before you fuck him yourself. If you don't actually bring a girlfriend,(optional) - spray some different perfume in the air so he thinks another woman is in there with you 2. Then go to town on him until he's flopping around and is hard as a rock. Then stop and escort your "girlfriend" out the door and come back in and ride him into oblivion!!! Have him tie you up - or handcuff you - and let him tease and torture you in whatever ways he wants. Restraints make for great "mind-fucks" in that you're "helpless" and must endure all the sexual teasing and stimulation that he can dish out. Orgasms tend to be very heavy. I have ideas galore!! My wife and I like to have variety. PM if you like if I /we can be of any more help. Really cool - and HOT - that you're interested in spicing things up. ATTA-GIRL !!
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