Just joined and wanted to share

Hello everyone.

I just joined here today and look forward to participating in discussion.

I wanted to post here because something exciting happened in my marriage just three days ago.

My wife of 22 years has always had a hint that I had some bi tendencies. I've expressed that I like watching transexual women on porn and she has pegged me a couple times over the years, but rarely.

So three nights ago we just started talking a little more. I occasionally look at porn on my phone while lying in bed while she was showering and she noticed one time that I shut it down when she came into the room recently. She asked me what I was looking at and poked a little fun, assuming (correctly) that I was looking at porn. She then told me "I don't care what you are looking at, you don't have to hide it". Interesting....

So fast forward a couple weeks and she and I are sitting on the porch one evening. The subject of sex came up and I ended up completely spilling my guys to her telling her everything I fantasize about and would like to try sometime...pretty much all instances would have her there and participating. She is a kind of shy and I've tried for years to get her to tell me her most secret kinks. Well, that nights she finally let me in. I found out that she sometimes is turned on by the thought of trying a girl, being DPed, having every hole filled...and even more exciting for me was that she admitted to being turned on by the thought of seeing me with another man or a trans girl. I told her I would like to try sucking a cock to completion and she said maybe she would snowball me. For quite a few years now, I always go down on her after I cum in her. She loves it. I've told her while having sex that I desperately want to be the bottoms in a MMF fuck licking situation with her. She admitted to that sounding fun and hot! In a nutshell, I told her that I would try pretty much anything once, outside of some of the more extreme things. Omdefintly want to suck, be fucked, fuck-lick, be fucked while fucking her, everything.


She did tell me, "you don't touch anyone else without my permission". And I told her I would never go outside our marriage, I want to include her in these adventures if they ever happen. I also told her on no uncertain terms, that this is about sexual craving and lust, I would never leave her and I don't want to live my life with anyone but her. And that these urges are just my fantasy driven desires.

We may or may not ever act on these things, getting a third person in our bed. But it sure is awesome to be able to be completely myself with my wife now. I told her how glad I was to be able to fully share this part of myself with her and that I no longer feel alone in our marriage on this subject. She's my little kinky girl and I love it!!! I just don't want to push her too hard or too fast. I think I'm ready to bring a third person into our sex life and if she told me she was bringing some home for us to play with, I would be exctatic. I just don't think she's quite as "there" about it as I am at this point.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my rambling

 

You're lucky. Great she wants to expand your relationship. Be aware her attitude may change over time. Good luck.

 

Definitely, communication will be open moving forward.

If she tells me she wasn't to try something, maybe we will. If she never does want to do anything more than talk about it and use toys together, that's fine too.
Speaking of toys, the other day she showed me a nice little batch of toys she just ordered... Things that will work on both of us at the same time. She is showing a new and enthusiastic desire to peg me. I'm good with it

 

How old are you guys? Wife of 22 years...maybe a good sign. Having been divorced twice, I'll just say be careful as you go forward.

 

I'm 46 and she is 45

 

If you piss her off, she will use it against you.

 

Nice, still young enough to enjoy life and not to late to start this journey.

Hoping it all goes well for you. I don't think my wife is that open and pillow talk has only been in the heat of the moment.

I think I could relate to most of what you want to do except the cum and the Girly bit. I'm open to being fucked but it's not to be fem or submissive I just think I would enjoy the physical side of it.

I think playing with a couple would be hot as I am attracted to women but I would like to sample cock too.

Playing with your own wife takes one problem out of the equation if she's on board.

I hope she is turned on by the idea of you sucking dick because it's just for fun and something you feel you need to experience.

 

Go for it. you only live once. Very cool that after 22 years you're both open minded.

 

Meh...I have 2

 

Great to hear that you were able to open up to get and she was receptive of it. I'm in the exact situation and most of what you said, I experienced as well. I'm 47 and she's 44. It feels good to open up with these feelings of fantasy, desires and hope knowing that it's just lustful feelings. Nothing more. There's no worry that you or her will leave one another because of these feelings. Happy for you. Good luck to you both.

 

So a few nights ago, we were in the mood and I was looking at some porn as we lay in bed. She was playing in her phone looking at tick tock as she always does, but I kept catching her looking at what I was watching, which was a good bit of mmf bi threesome stuff. Things like a guy eating a girls pussy while getting fucked in the ass by another guy, girl sucking the cock of a guy while he gets fucked in the ass by another guy, that sort of thing. She kept saying little things like "hmm, that's interesting" and things like that. I was enjoying myself stroking my cock a bit while watching some of my deepest fantasies without worrying one bit that she was also having a gander.

So we put our phones away and started to get down to business. Most times I like to tease my way down to her pussy, I end up on all fours next to her in sort of a sideways 69 position and eat her pussy while she plays with my cock. So I get down there and her pussy was so swollen and hot! I said to her at that point, "looks to me that you like watching guys fuck each other??" She confessed, "yeah, it's a pretty hot turn-on for me". A little later when we began to actually fuck, I started talking a little dirty about me getting fucked in the ass for her and she said that would be pretty hot. Told her I'd love to put on that show for her someday....and then I came! Lol!! And if course, I went back down on her and ate our sex and gave her a nice orgasm as I ALWAYS do after we fuck.

Was a great time

 

You hit the jackpot!
The only advice I'll offer is to make sure she's part of whatever you want to try. I'd start with HER kinks to make sure she feels safe and keep the trust. Once you can handle her with other men without jealousy you'll find there's a huge feast of fun loving people to play with.

 

Your marriage is more the outlier for sure but that’s a good thing!