Just got my first dildo.

My 6 inch rubber friend arrived today. It's for when hubby isn't here or when hes not in the mood. Hes on nights tonight so it will be getting rode, I can't wait. I have clit vibrators but I don't like vibrations inside me so a rabbit didn't appeal to me. A clit orgasm is amazing but sometimes you need hard penetration.
I'm damp and throbbing just thinking about it and could go and lock myself away and give myself a good seeing to right now but I'm saving it and building the anticipation. Any tips?

 

Oh I like the idea of a lengthy session with myself, normally it's a quick go with my little clit vibe, i can't wait.

 

Why not use it with hubby? You'd be amazed how good it feels having him in one hole and your toy in the other, i know its intimidating but my god the orgasm is next level.

 

I'd love to do that. We've done him inside me and a butt plug also but I found the buttplug kept coming out.

 

I find the same problem with the butt plugs popping out, my one fwb doesnt like doing it missionary cause his balls slap the hard plastic end and it ultimately pops out so he usually does me doggy style and just holds it in.

with the dildo after i'm warmed up and had the butt plug in a while we'll take the plug out,with me in doggy, insert the dildo in my pussy and he'll go in my ass, takes a bit of practice but i can usually work the dildo while he fucks my ass, the orgasms i get this way are incredible and usually leave me a trembling mess for a bit

 

Never tried toys with the oh before, this thread makes me want too though x

 

I think my wife's first, was about 6-7 inches. Worked her way up to 11 inch life like of some porn star. there was one of John Holmes, that was bigger. I asked her why she didn't get it. She said because her girlfriend had it, and that it was too damn big.

 

I gave my second wife a small vibrator left over from a previous relationship. Never saw it again but doubt she tossed it.

 

As a self described collector and connoisseur of such tools, it's nice to see someone join the hobby! One tip is that you need to experiment. You can do anything you want with a dildo, so do it! You might discover a new angle or rhythm that you can try with a partner later. Also, don't just stick to penises. Try different shapes. The first time I tried one of those big tentacly ones my whole world shifted. And finally, don't be afraid to splurge on a dildo. The worst thing you can do is get a crappy one, build up all the drive and anticipation only to hurt yourself or feel unsatisfied by your toy.

 

LydaG sounds like you have quite the collection of toys, would you like to share more about your collection? Maybe pics?

 

I bought a wand vibrator a couple of months ago, I found I can create a wonderful hands free orgasm with it. Still discovering new ways of self pleasure even at 40!

 

Welcome to the club! I use my 6-inch hot pink penis-shaped dildo quite a bit. Mmm wish I could see you ram that thing into your damp throbbing pussy.

 

Makes two of us.........

 

We do this with my wife. She loves it! We call it her friend. Lol

 

I hope you had a good time with your new friend! They can be amazing! Mine is an 8" thick realistic dildo. I absolutely love it. It has some great "veins" on it that make the thrust wonderful

 

Wouldn’t mind seeing yours in action. Lol

 

Hope you enjoy it and welcome to the club. If for some reason it's not all you thought it would be...try something else. I have gone through 15 to 20 or so until I settled on the magic one I am using now. No need for need size fits all. There are so many wonderful options. I have 3 that I rotate through. One is a very unique shape, one is rather large when i want a challenging stretch. And my favorite is a 7 inch realistic dildo I love to attach to the wall and just bury it over and over again.
Sometimes it's a slow romantic session other times it is a bend over and get taken session. So have fun and enjoy!

 

We have glass dildo wife loves it!

 

Hi. Thinking it doesn’t get much more erotic than watching your lady penetrate herself with a dildo/vibrator during play. Anyone else feel the same way?

 

Yes for sure very exciting