Just Denise

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself!' started by JustDenise, May 11, 2016.

  1. JustDenise

    JustDenise Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I'm not even sure what Google search led me here but, I like it! So I decided to join.

    I'm in my late 40s and a wife, mother, daughter, sister and best friend with all sorts of complications in my life. Husband and Mom are both seriously ill. Children are grown and out of the house and I'm pretty much lost most of the time just trying to keep everything afloat. My career tanked in 2013 after a merger and for the first time I was unemployed in 23 years. Then, couldn't find a job making anything close to what I was making was unemployed for 13 months, lost all of my benes, car and almost lost my home and now am terribly underemployed and living a very different life. I think the hardest part was not getting jobs that I would apply for in food service and retail because they didn't think I would stay. I digress...

    I'm an incredibly happy person without being perky. I love more than I hate. I get along with people and if you disagree with me or have an opposing opinion that is cool. It's what makes the world go round.

    I'm going to take a look around some more and I look forward to what this place has to offer.

    :daisy:
     
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  2. NoxiousGas

    NoxiousGas Old Fart

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    wow, sounds like your life has been kinda screwed up......you'll fit right in.
    Welcome [​IMG]
     
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  3. LarryOne

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    Hi JustDenise. I just wandered here by chance too. Literally 5 mins ago and saw you message. so 'hello'. :artist:
     
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  4. xx1448

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    Hello, I'm new here also. What are you looking for on this site?. I am a 45 yr old happily married man. Interested in erotic sex stories. The wife and I roleplay mfm during sex. I'm just exoloring also. Haven't cheated or shared yet. Good luck
     
  5. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    You could tell us about this if you would like.
     
  6. JustDenise

    JustDenise Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Thanks!

    Since I posted this we have moved mom into hospice. :bigcry: She had a heart attack and stroke late last year. She was improving in rehab and then BAM... another stroke and has just continued to get worse. So, per her wishes we have moved her into a hospice facility and we wait. As the POA I have a mountain of things to do and try to deal with all the emotional weight at the same time. It is terrifying, heartbreaking and exhausting. My husband was recently diagnosed with lupus and has his own set of circumstances and issues that require my constant attention so I feel like I'm spread very thin.

     
  7. xx1448

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    Sorry about your family illnesses. You have to stay strong. Sounds like your hands are full.
     
  8. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    Sorry to hear about this. Here are some results that I found for caregiver support groups

    https://duckduckgo.com/?q=support+groups+for+caregivers&ia=web

    can't vouch for any of them, but maybe it would help to talk to people in similar situations

    Acupuncture and TCM might help with your husband's lupus.
     

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