just cant do it. It fucks with my head.

Like many of us old guys, we have made a slight sexual detour with a little Bi Fun. There weren't any inhibition feelings when it came to having fun with my old friend. We both sucked each other numerous times and have fucked a couple of times, even with our wives knowlege, approval and watching. My feelings are pure lust, until kissing came into the picture. Why is it that I can suck his cock and take a load of cum down my throat, but I can't get into kissing and it takes me right out of the picture. My friend feels the same. According to him, we are just lifelong friends helping each other out with some senior therapy. A good blowjob will make anybodys day a little bit better so its no harm, no foul. My wife doesn't have any problems with the things we do, but she also feels that kissing is kinda strange Has anyone else felt like this.? Did you get past it?

 

That's how it is with me, or was, over a decade ago. Good friends who got into each other's cocks, sucked and pulled every which way, and in the case of a gay friend, reamed and creamed his clean, well prepared ass hole until he grunted and gasped in pleasure, but kissing and that sort of emotional stuff, never.

 

Kissing each other rarely even crosses my mind. I always want his cock in my mouth and occasionally I want it in my ass too, but I'm just not into kissing another man although I have on occasion.

 

Kissing is reserved for the one I love. Sucking my friends cock and fucking him, is sexual lust

 

I’m not into it either!.. it has happened in the past in the heat of a lustful sexual encounter!… either during a wild anal sex moment or swapping a mouthful of delicious cum!… during those times I really don’t think of it as kissing but an extension of the sex!

 

I have no interest in kissing a man but I am ready to try other things if some NSA fun was on the cards.

It's just sex and I want to try sex with another male

 

I get that entirely. There is no romantic element to the desires I have. Just the knowledge that someone is as horny as I am and we would enjoy getting each other off. i speak from no experience, but realize that men have a much stronger sex drive than women (typically) and it makes sense that two men would enjoy helping each other get pleasure. I know how good it feels for a guy to cum and want to help others achieve that on a more regular basis than relationships with females provide.

 

Which is why I found myself browsing Craigs List and hooking up with so many other deprived married men in my area to provide each other with the oral sex we were desperately needing and wanting. My wife at the time when I started sucking cock was a cock slut, damn she was good, and then it dried up as I found myself surpassing her desires for sucking cock out of need to be sucked myself.

 

No kissing for me either. Just put your cock in my mouth and empty your balls down my throat.

 

I'm in the same boat kissing is a passion thing, I only feel that with women.

 

I have been a pan sexual man for a very long time. If I really like someone, kissing can be so nice, no matter what their gender might be.

It's not a romantic thing. For me it's an affectionate moment with someone who is willing to drop their guard and merge with another person.

 

I've never been able to really wrap my head around kissing men. I've done it and I've enjoyed it with a couple of guys but kissing as a matter of course? Oh, hell, no. Let's not and say we did and if you're a guy that needs some kissing, well, I'm not your guy. I can't wrap my head around it and... I don't have to.

 

Being very new to this and one encouter with another guy, the kissing was very odd to me. Shoving a cock into my mouth seemed...normal. I also noticed that my porn habbits are find with oral or anal but the kissing just throws me off.

 

I tried kissing and realized that it wasn't for me.

I am obsessed with cock. That's all I want.

You are in good company.

 

Kissing isn't one of those things I find to be too intimate and like some people do but I also don't see it as a necessity even when you take foreplay into consideration. Some men and women do not want to be kissed and, okay; there's more to their bodies than their lips that can be kissed but, maybe I'm wrong, but men don't have to be "warmed up" like women like to insist they need to be... and for good reason. So kissing women as a prelude to sex makes sense if she even wants to be kissed... but for guys? I say it's optional; I also agree that some guys just do not know how to kiss. In a lot of encounters, it's literally a "blow and go" scenario so there's no time or interest in kissing and even when there's been time to spend all day with a guy, kissing is one of those things that, for me, okay, I'm not opposed to trying it with yet another guy but it's not the first thing that comes to mind once the clothes come off and we're in bed and, still, with many of the men I've slept with, I can kiss them anywhere I want to... except on the lips.

Which is fine by me. We don't have to kiss.

 

It took quite some time to even consider kissing a man. It just didn’t do anything for me. Over time that has shifted, the guy I see these days likes it and he gets very hard and turned on when we do kiss. It turns very passionate and that feels good. It makes him want me more. So I guess I’ve changed my thoughts on it since I’ve reaped the benefits if it.