jealousy

Do you get jealous easily?

 

yesh but i just say fuck it and walk off

 

I've been with my man for 5 years, I used to get jealous, now I'm secure in our relationship so I don't get jealous anymore, now we just check them out together, lol

 

yea

 

im jealous of monkeeez

 

yea i get jealous a lil more easily than i'd like / like to admitt

 

Not much.

 

That's exactly what I would say.

-Jeffrey

 

yeah i do but i try to hide it

 

I read somewhere that all our emotions have a positive and negative side to them. How we deal with them determines which comes out. But, jealously is the combination of all the negative sides coming together, therefore, there is nothing positive that can come from jealousy.

 

herb is jealous of old-hippies explanation!!!

 

nope .....jealousy is ugly stupid n dangerous

 

i'm with GreenGoddess... my g/f and i have been together for 5 yrs and we enjoy checking girls out together... my g/f is a bit bi-curious which is great! (obviously) About a year ago we were kind of curious about whether or not we'd be jealous if we had a threesome with another girl... then we were curious about whether we'd be jealous if we had a 4some with another couple. Basically we were interested in trying new things and we were curious about our jealousy responses to certain situations.
We've realized that there are certain things that can make us get jealous, but they're not as general as we would've expected... for instance, we don't get jealous watching each other with another couple... but i tend to get jealous if she's having sex a certain way... you know what i mean? It was surprising and fun for us and even though we haven't done anything like that for quite a while, we'll probably try it a few more times throughout our relationship... it's just something that works for us, but we had to treat it as an experiment... jealousy is a strange beast

 

Right now, I am very jealous of the majority of the people in this country, for tomorrow is Sunday and the majority of people have it off, where as I have to work.

 

How could I be?


I've got it made.

 

im jealous of the great nothingness

 

I definitely get jealous more than I want to think I do ---I could be pretending to be cool but I'll be boiling inside--it sucks

 

i can't really recall a time when i've ever been horribly jealous. i pretend to be with my boyfriend when i'm bored sometimes

 

id had some bad experiences with jealousy, like people telling my guy that they just saw me dirty dancing with some random guy when i know i was at the bar and that's just total crap. ah shit like that pisses me off coz then it all comes down to trust and fuck it just adds uneccessary pain.

 

I don't think jealousy is purely negative. It can motivate change.