Me and my fiancee are both very sexual, and I know for a fact she would enjoy (as I would) to have another person, or 2, join us sometime. Problem is, she is very possesive of me, and as of now, could never share me. While I would be willing to share her, I would like the road to go both ways. Are there any women out there who have been jealous in the past who could help me, help her overcome her possesiveness and jealousy? any thoughts or comments are appreciated
Having her examine what behaviours result in the possessive/jealousy response might help, as would taking a close look at exactly what she's afraid of. Does she think that she's about to be replaced by one of the other potential partners? Are there any other underlying issues in your relationship that need to be resolved before she'll feel comfortable expanding that horizon?
I agree with the this girl. I think I was jellious of a x, because I had issues, I needed to over come. Ask her whats she think will happen, I'd tell her how much love there is, and I'd tell her about open ideas and freeness. I hope the best. I give my love and I give my peace.
You only THINK you would enjoy it... Well, you would enjoy it in the short term... But it will all go to hell soon after...
I have a fantastic book recommendation for you, "The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" by Dossie Easton and Catherine Listz, published by Greenery Press (the Good Vibrations gang in San Francisco). I've been in my long-term committed non-monogamous relationship for nine years with great success. This book helped to get us through all that jealousy and posessiveness bullshit and to the happy uber-sexual place we are now. Enjoy!
Read it and find out pctec! It will open your mind and fill it up with all sorts of useful information!
