jacking off with friend

so i got this friend, and we talk about jacking off and our dicks and stuff (we are straight) and i think it would be cool to jack off with him of mutual jack off. how should i go about it so that it doesnt come off gay?

 

If you're both straight and comfortable with that, how could it come off gay?

 

idk, it just seems kinda awkward to ask my buddy to do that straight forwardly, ya kno?

 

Jerking another man's cock is pretty gay.

 

rofl. well put.

i dunno though man, just "broach" the subject. bring up the idea, kinda get a feel for it without directly saying "hey let's jerk each other off".

 

Just say something like "Man, I'm not gay or anything... but I just wanna grab that package of yours and put it in my mouf"

 

Just follow him into the bathroom one day, lock the door behind you, unzip his fly and grab his cock. Things will progress naturally from there, trust me.

 

He didn't actually say he wanted them to touch each other. Just that he wants them to watch each other jack off.

Here's how you do it; next time you're talking about your dicks and jacking off, say that you're horny, and does he mind if you get off? If he says it's okay, he might join in, too. You might try sharing an especially good porno, then say you're horny and does he mind, etc.

 

You're right. Watching another man masturbate while you also jerk off is a completely normal and heterosexual activity.

 

He said "mutual jack off". That term is generally used to describe "touching each other".

 

When I was at school, a lot of the sessions were initiated by games, such as Strip Monopoly, or Strip Poker, etc, where all sorts of rules could be made up as forfeits. In this way, although we were all fully aware of what we were all out for, it could be claimed that we were not welching on our debts, even though no matter what it was we played, or whoever won or lost, we would always end up masturbating each other. The games were just an open excuse.

 

You'd be surprised. 4 posts, I see. I can tell you're new here.

Often, but not always. "Mutual" merely means shared or reciporicated. Touching yourself and and making a show of it is reciporicating, if that's all the other person is doing. You're sharing an experience even if you keep your hands to yourself.

But lets just ask him. Do you want to jack each other off, Masashi?

 

Nah, you failed and you are trying to argue your way out of it. I own a dictionary bro

Answer the question masashi.

 

ok for now i just wanna jack off with him, not necessarily jacking eachother off. but im cool with it if things escalate and we do jack eachother off.

 

No you're not. Your a queer, face it.

impossible

 

Why are you so concerned with how other guys think of their own sexuality, Lunar? You think a guy can do something gay all by himself (self-suck), and he can do something gay with someone else using only his eyes?

The reality is, guys are just sexual. They'll try things for the hell of it, do stuff just becuase it feels good, or on dares, or for money, or just to see what sex and masturbation is like for other guys and compare to themselves... and think nothing of it, and still never do it again. You think every guy who does guys in porn is gay? Every single woman that does porn does girl-on-girl, and I never see anyone think they're all secretly dykes.

I am queer, but if it wasn't for straight guys, I'd never have gotten any play until I was out of my teens. I still know several of the guys I fooled around with, and I know they've got girlfriends and wives and haven't touched another guy in 15-20 years. They know they could tell me, or come to me.

 

I consulted Wikipedia and dictionary.com to make sure, before I posted...

 

lmao. I don't care what anybody does man. I'm never serious when I say shit like that. I'm just fucking around. I don't dislike gay people at all and I really couldn't give a shit less about what anyone does with anyone else. To each their own. Live and let die, that sort of thing.

 

Not something I'd do- I'm sure it's done by many others though.

 

Well, maybe you should think about how you might be making these guys feel. A lot of them are probably very young, and insecure. They find these forums, and think it looks like cool people are around, and see there's a mastubation forum where people are very open, and they think it's safe to put themselves out there... and then someone comes along and says somethign mean, and tells them they're lying, and makes them feel bad about themself.