I've been masturbating the wrong way for years

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by Knocc Out, Jun 4, 2013.

  1. Knocc Out

    Knocc Out Member

    Hi

    So basically I'm now 23 and have been masturbating frequently since I was 15 or so. I will usually masturbate really quickly to just get to the climax if I'm not into the porn I'm watching. I don't even use my whole hand on my penis I will just go up and down on the ring under the glans really quickly, ignoring the shaft ( i have quite a small penis and sometimes it's difficult to get a hard penis if I don't enjoy the porn). To be honest most of the time it doesn't feel good, even the climax - though this might be because I'm not into the porn I'm watching or I'm depressed.

    Today I tried masturbating the shaft as well and the feeling was amazing + plus I was really enjoying the porn, much better than just concentrating on the glans ring. To be honest I didn't realise how much better using the shaft could be until now because I always hurried to get to the climax.

    Could only stimulating the glans ring for so many years damage that part of my penis somehow?
     
  2. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

    You would know if you broke it.
     
  3. Knocc Out

    Knocc Out Member

    To be honest most of the time I cum it doesn't even feel good - like no feeling at all.

    I always blamed this on depression or not being into the porn - never on my method of stimulating my penis.

    I suppose your right though, Heat. I was just worried
     
  4. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

    Masturbating is about getting to know your own body and what stimulates you the most. I personally do not think there is a right or wrong way, rather there are preferences.

    Experiment as that is half the fun. :)
     
  5. cbcrazy

    cbcrazy Member

    Sounds to me like you should seek out some medical attention, both physical and mental. Something is not right.
     
  6. tubahead

    tubahead Member

    What is not right about this? I think you might have just a few hang ups or something.
     
  7. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Experimenting with will power is also a useful exercise.
    When masturbating, under normal circumstances you will usually have the urge to take the full grip, which tends to apply pressure to the underside of the glans (and there's nothing wrong with that, per se), but if you force yourself to vary techniques, once in a while, you will get so much more from it. The obvious method to try here is to use your forefinger & thumb around the centre of the shaft, never going any further up than ¾ the way, thus totally avoiding contact with the glans altogether. It may sound as if this wouldn't be very successful in getting anywhere at all, but I can assure you that if you can focus your will power sufficiently throughout, the resulting orgasm can be astounding.
     

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