Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by HushBull, Jan 17, 2009.
end a relationship when you know it's not your fault. :cheers2:
Absolutely. So I take it this has just happened with you? Yes, it makes it worlds easier to move on when you don't waste time blaming yourself.
Yea, a back and forth thing for way too long.
This time feels different though because of not beating up on myself, thinking of how I messed up.
I have a stronger belief that it'll be okay, that I did I as well as I could.
nice! yeah its true once you break up, you did it for a reason, even if its hard, and some feelings for that person remain, its best to just bite the bullet
every new beginning, comes from some other beginnings end...cheesy i know, but work with me people
It's so much easier to end a relationship when you have one. :cheers2:
it is easier, however that doesn't make it not atleast slightly difficult...
like i'm sure there was some emotions built up somewhere
No, I'm sure there were feelings, but the realization that you're not to blame definitely makes it easier. For me, anger often does the trick as well, but the last girl I dated cheated on me, so yeah.
:smilielol5: Very true
its easy even if you know its your fault, coz then you don`t care anymore about that relationship in the first place
Realizing things are beyond your control, that people have motivations and quirks that are completely unto themselves and never-changing--- it lessens the pain of having invested so much.
I say shoot em, no long term issues.
it's always my fault. i never bring enough money for the whole night, so she moves on to the next client.
my thoughts exactly
I never have to worry about such things
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