It's so much easier to...

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  1. HushBull

    HushBull Insuperior

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    end a relationship when you know it's not your fault. :cheers2:
     
  2. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Absolutely. So I take it this has just happened with you? Yes, it makes it worlds easier to move on when you don't waste time blaming yourself.
     
  3. HushBull

    HushBull Insuperior

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    Yea, a back and forth thing for way too long.
    This time feels different though because of not beating up on myself, thinking of how I messed up.
    I have a stronger belief that it'll be okay, that I did I as well as I could.
     
  4. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    nice! yeah its true once you break up, you did it for a reason, even if its hard, and some feelings for that person remain, its best to just bite the bullet

    every new beginning, comes from some other beginnings end...cheesy i know, but work with me people :D
     
  5. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    It's so much easier to end a relationship when you have one. :cheers2:
     
  6. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    it is easier, however that doesn't make it not atleast slightly difficult...
    like i'm sure there was some emotions built up somewhere
     
  7. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    No, I'm sure there were feelings, but the realization that you're not to blame definitely makes it easier. For me, anger often does the trick as well, but the last girl I dated cheated on me, so yeah.
     
  8. WeetzieBat

    WeetzieBat Member

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    :smilielol5: Very true
     
  9. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    its easy even if you know its your fault, coz then you don`t care anymore about that relationship in the first place
     
  10. HushBull

    HushBull Insuperior

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    Realizing things are beyond your control, that people have motivations and quirks that are completely unto themselves and never-changing--- it lessens the pain of having invested so much.
    RahRah :eek:
     
  11. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    I say shoot em, no long term issues. ;)
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it's always my fault. i never bring enough money for the whole night, so she moves on to the next client.
     
  13. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    my thoughts exactly

    I never have to worry about such things
     

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