Are you a regular married guy, who never considered anything gay or bi? Then, one horny day, you suddenly had an awakening and thought about getting a bj from a gay friend and maybe retuning the favor. The fact that my wife couldn't do it, mastubation just didn't cut it and she knew our friend would do it for me .She is the one who suggested that I do it to him too. Get the poison out and live a contented life. He has the same needs. It was a logical "no brainer" It suddenly didn't seem to matter anymore and you wanted to "explore". Was there a deciding factor that led you down the bi path?
For me it was having some guy friends dress up in our sisters panties and everything that followed. It was definitely a rush to feel so wanted and attractive to them. I would happily and without hesitation go down on them knowing that they were going to return the favor! Those were fun times!
It never entered my mind until one day when I was a senior in high school and a classmate approached me. Of course I turned him down. For the next 45 years my thoughts would drift to the idea of fucking him every once in a while. One day on a business trip I did take the plunge. I haven’t indulged as much as I’d like to, but it is enjoyable to enjoy a sissy bottom from time to time
After getting numerous blowjobs from gay men I just all of a sudden got the urge to want to suck a cock myself. I was instantly aroused the moment his cock entered my mouth as I started to stroke myself.
In my early years I would go to the local Adult Book Store. I would always go to A booth and watch videos and of course jerk off. After many trips I found myself checking the gay porn also. There were offers and hard cocks sticking through the GHs in the booths a lot. one day I decided after a lot of thought filled trips to just leave the door to the booth open slightly. A older man came in and stood next to me. he rubbed against me, I was nervous as hell. I just stood there then I felt his hand on my bulge. I didn't move at all, Next thing I know he was unzipping me. Needless to say it was awkward but he did suck my cock, From that day on I have found my Bi side and really enjoy it..
Back in the day, when I broke into the bi scene, I had a friend that always wanted to jerk together. For a while I turned it down but was somewhat intrigued. His persistence paid off when I finally said ok and we laid in his bed and jerked ourselves until orgasm. I was oddly turned on and loved seeing him cum. We eventually traded hjs and it was the first time anyone had made me cum. Again, oddly enough, I enjoyed making him cum more than him making me. A few weeks later I was the one that initiated trading blow jobs, which quickly became just me sucking his cock without the desire for reciprocation. Same went for bottoming. I initiated the first time, he pretty much did each time after. It’s crazy to think that something that I really wasn’t into is now something I crave. I love sex with women, but something about pleasing a guy with my mouth and ass is beyond incredible.
There was a time in my life...I was so "homo-phobic" only wanting and desiring women and was married to a sexy woman that was a fantastic lover. One day, a gay co-worker stated to me "Don't knock it until you try it"! I did eventually try it years later and wished I'd started sooner. I had never realized how much I enjoyed sucking cock as much as eating pussy and sucking tits. My present wife and I have a male lover we spend erotic evenings with and I so enjoy having sex with a woman and a man at the same time.