Its no big deal to suck a cock, according to my wife?

She said that men make too much of a fuss about getting a blowjob and to women, Its no big deal.
If they weren't fucking, they were sucking. Thats what they did and she and her gfs all used to do it. Mind you it was 60 yrs ago and there were" Drive In Movies." Do guys really make more out of it, then they do? I wish she still felt it was no big deal. Now its NO DEAL

 

I think it’s based off a women’s previous experience, if it was enjoyable for them at first it would be no big deal. However if at first try it was uncomfortable or for some reason it was not fun for them then I can see why it would a big deal

 

Really? You knew the girls who, if they weren't fucking, they were sucking and getting sucked was better than nothing - and having a bad case of blue balls. Go to the drive in... and getting sucked was almost a guarantee and I don't know about any other guys but if someone wanted to blow me, I wouldn't be mad at them for it. Guys would make a huge fuss... if the person wanting to give them a blowjob was also a guy, well, until they found out that guys can suck dick pretty damned good, too. Most of the guys I hung around with would fuss because no girl would blow them, so it wasn't like a girl was offering one and the guy acted like a spoiled little bitch and turned it down.

I dunno... maybe guys today are prissy little bitches who don't know how good women can suck cock; I just know that I'm not one of them so if she wants to suck my dick, here you go, baby girl - have at it! Lemme eat that pussy while you're at it.

 

Whatever happened to the old cliche that said: "a hard cock has no conscience"? I know if someone offered to suck my cock I would let them, female or male!!!! I've received AMAZING blowjobs from both women and men.

 

I dunno - maybe they have a conscience now? I suck cock so I know that it's not that big of a deal except to those guys who are scared shitless to have a dude blow them, so I just don't see guys really acting like prudes if a woman wants to blow them and more so if you know how and why, historically, women aren't fans of sucking cock. A woman tells me that she doesn't want to fuck but she'll suck my dick and my response is, "Okay... can I eat that pussy, too?" We don't have to fuck but getting and giving head? That works and something would really and seriously have to be wrong with me if I tell someone that I don't want a blowjob.

 

I know there are quite a few women out there that despise sucking cock and are even disgusted at the thought of putting a cock in their mouth. I must have been lucky most of my life because 90% of the women that I have had sex with loved, or at least liked to suck cock. In fact, a few of my companions would just ask if they could suck my cock without any provocation or reciprocation. That was in my "luckier", younger days.

 

My wife never thought it was a big deal. She started young and liked it right away, and of course when the boys found out she and her older sister 'did it', they were pretty busy.
She married the first time early, and her first husband of course loved it. To her, it was almost like giving him a kiss. She was also giving a few other guys the same attention - it was no big deal!
She sucked me off the second time we met. I knew I had lucked out!

 

Giving a man a blowjob is a Hot sexy erotic and just plain fun experience for me, and I’m sure it’s the same for any man I’ve been with. I’ve never had any complaints and have had guys come back for more.

 

I've never had any reason to complain about any BJ I have had, and am always happy to go back for more.

 

Being a cocksucker myself, I can understand why some women would prefer not to or, worse, I think, they'll do it because it's expected of them or out of some sense of obligation and that doesn't bode well for that aspect of the sexual relationship and, oh, yeah, don't even think about asking her to blow you once she decides that she's not ever going to do it again. The good and bad thing about that is it gets guys checking out guys to get a blowjob and, yup, sometimes, turning them in to cocksuckers, too...

 

Getting sucked is my favorite thing and I sure know a lot of women who don't mind doing it and many get more hung up on pure sex than sucking cock. I used to see a friend before she moved that just loved sucking cock but told me that having sex with her beyond her giving me head was out of the question due to respect for her husband. Worked for me and now she's all grown up with three kids. We still talk about her sucking skills today. Love that.

 

My wife and fb enjoy cocksucking. My wife was known as the blowjob queen in college and I have posted about this before. My fb enjoys sucking as well. My fwb is a fantastic cocksucker but in general will let guys fuck her as she finds cocksucking to be more intimate. I would think it’s the other way around

 

I wish the OP’s wife had talked to mine a few decades ago! It took 3 yrs of marriage to get my dick in her mouth and a few decades for her to let me cum in that mouth. Lol….persistence paid off.
I’m so glad she relaxed about it! A few days ago, she wasn’t feeling up to sex and asked if it was ok to take a rain check and just watch me JO. I said sure. As I got close, I asked to finish in her mouth and was surprised that she agreed (given her past attitudes).
Maybe she’s at the point of “it’s no big deal”.

Now if we can get to “swallowing is no big deal”….lol