Its just physical pleasure.

Can you and your s/o share physical pleasures with other couples or individuals, without it interfering with your love for each other? Wouldn't you like to see your partner really enjoying the Maximum physical pleasure that can be achieved by bringing others into the bed. Have you always been very sexually open or did you wake up to new sexual horizons?

 

Let’s unwrap your questions one at a time.
Can you and your s/o share physical pleasures with other couples or individuals, without it interfering with your love for each other? Yes most definitely. We are a LS. It’s just “fun” sex.
Wouldn't you like to see your partner really enjoying the Maximum physical pleasure that can be achieved by bringing others into the bed. We always do. We practice “Compersion” in everything we do.
Have you always been very sexually open or did you wake up to new sexual horizons? We have always very open with our sex life together. We talk about sex daily, it’s a big part of who we are. Even after all these years of marriage we continue to push our sexual boundaries. We really enjoy sex with our best friends and we see them about once a month for some playtime. We are also nudist as well.

 

Can you share without it interferring? Yes as long as both are willing to unlearn some stuff so they can learn some new stuff that can enhance their pleasures and tighten their bond even more.
Wouldn't you like to see your partner...? Sure, if she wanted to but if she doesn't, I'm not going to push or pressure her.
Have you always been sexually open? I have because I got that wakeup call a long time ago. My lady? Eh, not as much as either of us would like but we can talk about it without acting like a couple of prudes.

 

Our openness evolved as our relationship did. When we were young, we played around because the hormones of youth drove us to it. We craved lots of sex and some extra partners with which to have it. Yet we knew we were the ones for each other. Now, we play with other couples to share the experience together. To watch and participate in each others’ experiences with the other partner and to also share in the other couple’s pleasure.

 

Wife and I both enjoyed sex with others, no hang ups pure pleasure.

 

I share physical pleasures with others who are not my spouse. It doesn't interfere with my love for her. I find it relieves the pressure of everyday living I have chosen to endure. For me it is a fun and enjoyable outlet to have sex with other women. It's purely physical with emotions for just the sex involved and nothing more. Afterwards I feel so much better. I am the one who is still sexually active in our marriage. I would have liked to watch her enjoying sexual pleasure with others but it never came about. I know of her trysts with other men she had as those have been openly discussed. They were for validation of her choice in marriage. It wasn't up until the last decade I stepped out and found sex beyond our marital bed though. That has turned out to be some of the best times I've had and yes, it's just physical pleasure.

 

What are her thoughts of your activities?

 

Her position is that of understanding and acceptance. As long as I make sure she is taken care of there is no problem with my having some fun.

 

She not able to or doesn’t want to participate?

 

Unfortunately she isn't able to participate anymore. Medical reasons.

 

Sorry to hear that.

 

:-(

 

I think there's a lot of different ways to answer this. My best FWB has no problem with me seeing anyone else and she gets laid nearly every day by her non live in boyfriend AND she has a love AND she has a husband AND she frequently takes care of me. BUT, if I ask her to let someone else join us, she has a terrible time sharing and won't do it with a stranger so basically, it's a NO! Yet, she'll send a friend my way for some great head so long as neither of us talk to her about it. Emotions complicate things and we're all made different when it comes to that.

 

I am able to to enjoy sexual relationships outside of my marriage and honestly it makes my marriage better. My wife is no longer interested in any sex at all. So me getting it outside of my marriage I have found that it takes away the resentment that occurs not having it at all. She has no idea I’m doing it but unknowingly does benefit from it.

 

My s/o is unable to disconnect love and intercourse. When she was single, she was able to have sex for the sake of having sex. But, if she is in love with a man, the sex has to feel like "making love." She doesn't even like a "down and dirty fuck" with me.

 

My wife demonstrated in college that sex could be just a physical act that brings pleasure with no emotional attachment. She can do that, but I can't. We decided she could have sex with a few others after we married, and she did so with no impact on our relationship. She was completely open and honest with me about those "dates." I have never been with anyone else and do not want to be.

 

Do you go elsewhere for some fun?

 

Occasionally. I travel for work, so sometimes I will look for a buddy to get off with.

Cumming with random guys is really fun.

 

Have to take your word on that one. Closest I’ve come to that is spit roasting a woman and we both came in her in relatively quick succession.

 

That sounds like a great time. Was it just the one time?

I did a MMF three-way once. It was before I got into guys and we did a variation of the spit-roast. He played on the bed, while his wife sucked him and I fucked her.

I should have done that more often.