I am 24 years old and lately I have masturbated watching gay porn since I am very excited to see a good cock but I do not know anyone with whom I can experiment and I created an account in an app. Would it be a good idea to have an experience with a stranger?
Everyone you meet in life is a stranger the first time you meet. Back in the day when I first started sucking cock they were only strangers until his cock entered my mouth. Then he shot his load in my mouth, I swallowed it, and we were friends as he continued to contact me for oral service when needed.
True that - Definitely a good way to make friends and if you didn't feel a bond, you can always say "good by".
Oh, a bond is made for sure. The giver parts ways with a part of the other and also a memory for both.
What?...Watch him suck you off? From my experience men put way more passion and desire into sucking another mans cock than 75% of women. But, on the flip side women may also provide way more passion and desire when going down on another woman. Choose your mate, or be flexible and experience what "same-sex" can and will provide before shunning it. Hell, do what I did and learn from the woman who can orally get my wife off in no time once she's got her deeply relaxed within a full body caressing massage. I watched and learned and thanked her for it. My wife still prefers her but knows now that when she is not available I am able to provide her what she needs.
I'm gonna say that it is a good idea to do those things that YOU want to do. As someone who denied and hid from those desires most of my life, I would advise you not to do the same. If you feel the drive to do it, do it. Don't let others dictate how you would live. That is the advice I would give to the younger me if I could. Don't listen to those who would stop you, or even to those who would encourage you. Listen to your own wants and needs. Live your life being true to yourself and who you are.
I took a chance with a guy off CL and wound up with a friend whom I met with almost every weekend for nearly two years. Met up with a guy a year ago and have had sex with him many times since and chats in between. The point is the old saying that a stranger is a friend you haven't met yet.
Go for it, just be careful. Back in the days of craigslist I met four couples and several single females. Some were only a one time thing but all were enjoyable and memorable.
I agree with several other posters. You started with porn and then built an online profile. I'm not a sex therapist, but to me there is obviously something 'there.' Email or chat with a guy until you feel comfortable with them online before meeting IRL b/c u will likely be nervous no matter what. Also, I've found that guys that experiment with cock almost always love it and don't want to turn back. It's ok. At least on here, we've all been there!
....this reminds me of an old topic I read elsewhere online, long ago, something about "When best buddies become lovers", and "When best buds become bed buds". If you are VERY "tight" with another guy, and you decide to "go with it", the emotional "high" you'll get an emotional (and physical) "high that will literally send you into overdrive.....I speak from experience, here, guys...... Regards, John
Strangers become friends...and in this case, the kind of friends that will satisfy your curiosity. If you want it, do it. I have had many strangers fuck me. Sometimes it's a real thrill to kneel in front of a stranger you met in an app, and pull his dick out and suck it. Be careful. Just have a meet and greet at a public location to see what your getting into.
Having met many married men through Craigs List I would get so excited on the drive over to meet them. The thrill of removing his pants while he's sitting on his living room couch to reveal his cock, look up at him and smile just before taking his cock into your mouth. Mmmm
I like at least some familiarity. Like what was said above, after communicating on line with them meet in a public place first to see what you are in for. I’m making plans with a guy I had a meet and greet with now. The first public meeting works well to get a sense about someone.
It is very enjoyable to meet with new people and have some sexual fun together. But you do need to be careful. I was assaulted once by a man i met and it was in his house. We had discussed on Grindr that all we were up for that day was oral. He said he wanted to rim me and i said that was ok. So i was on all fours on the bed with him behind me. He then grabbed me and shoved his cock in my ass without any warning, it really hurt. I panicked and he grabbed me and held on to me to stop me leaving. I then had to pretend to calm down and he still made me wank myself off on him. I felt so abused and scared. I couldn't leave when i wanted to because i was scared that if i tried he would have forced me. Up until that moment there was nothing that made me think he was going to be trouble. So its always worth being a bit cautious.
