hi all! I am a woman who does not regularly cum, even with masturbation. My husband is great and very giving in bed, but the only way I can orgasm with him is to use a very powerful vibrator when I am on top. When I dont use the vibrator, I find I cannot sleep after sex. I am a very bad sleeper by nature, but this makes it harder. Does anyone else share these difficulties? If so what do you do to help with them?
Get him to caress your body for hours. Ask him to use his hands. His hands need to be soft and not callused. If he is willing to caress your entire body for hours then it will help you reach orgasm. read my old post for the technique I cant be bothered writing it all out again.
My wife can't fall asleep after sex either. She says it's like a transfer of energy into her. It takes her about an hour or so for her "tingling" to calm down so she can sleep
I find it very easy to sleep after a good cum, but then, that's what men do, right......lol Also cum pretty easily, the first time around. Women can be different, I know...