Is young love real ?

Is it possible to fall in love this young ?

Im about to be 17 on the 27th.

I have had plenty of GF's and had plenty of sexual partners and this Girl i have been talking too for exactly a year now is a goody good type of girl and also a Virgin.

She is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. She makes me so happy. And i dont even have the temptations to try to get her in bed.. Not that i wouldnt if i had the chance.

I dont know if im falling for her or just like her alot. Is it REALLY possible to fall in love this young ? And no im not the type of teen to go and say I love some girl after 2 weeks of dating her. Ive never told a girl i loved her.

 

play it safe dawg

dont give her your heart but dont refuse it to her.
play it out

 

you're goin fine man. there's nothing wrong with it. the problem older parent-like people see with 'young love' is that it is insignificant, not unreal. well, at least thats my take on the situation.
just don't do anything stupid like get her pregnant. at least not yet. and if things eventually go bad for some reason, don't feel an obligation to stay with her just because you have fallen in love with her in the past, as if you are keeping the good memories there, or legitimate. so many people do this (hold onto good memories), and it just makes things worse.
just some advice.

 

Wow, it's pretty awesome that you like this girl (or love depending on if you decide it's real) enough to want to be with her but don't want to force her into sex. Personally I would say that it is possible to fall in love at 17, but don't try to jump into anything drastic for awhile until a relationship has been built.

 

Is love real, period?

 

I fell inlove at 16 and I'm still with him at 19. We live together now and I wouldn't want it any other way I defiantly do think young love is real. Hell yea its real!

 

I want to say yes, and I probably do believe it's real

but I hate love at this moment in time, each and every girl i have liked in some sort of special way have point blank fucked me over.


I believe you can fall in love at a young age. I have had quite a few girl friends and seen a hell of a lot more, but I always think of my first and still feel like I miss her to this day- ten years later.

That, actually, does confuse me quite a lot.

 

Doesn't necessarily mean that you'll never find someone special. For some it takes time.Don't worry man im pretty sure you'll find someone especially because you so funny and you sound like pretty chill guy! Shit if you still have feeling for you 10 year ago ex gf then go and find her!

 

I still love a girl from youth. Grew up in the same church, went to prom, visited each other in college, then went our separate ways. Distance was the hardest part to overcome. I still think about her very now and then. I'd guess thats love.

 

Haha, trust me, I don't want to be with her again

Suppose what they say about your first love might be true, they just stick out in your mind a little more!

And I hope you're right, I don't have any trouble getting girls but do have trouble finding the right one. For a long time I was going for the wrong things, and I see that now.

And thank you for calling me funny and chilled, you seem exactly the same, though you didn't need me to tell you that

 

In this life, a man has but one wife. No matter how many spouses you may have, your love is always for "your wife." Of course the same can be said of any emotion.

 

Thats good that you realized that. You need someone distinctive and appropriate than all your last gf's.
lol your welcome

 

maybe i need to step away from the playstation for a while if my first thought here involves trying to figure out the significance of your number of guardian forces... :leaving:

 

In short, no.

But I'm just a crotchety old spinster who's never been in love and probably never will be if I haven't found it by this point in the game. Thought I was once, but it turned out to be something else.

I guess I can't really give a fair assessment so don't listen to me. I'll believe it when I see it.

 

my parents met when they were 14 and had me at 19, my brother at 20, and my sister at 23.... then they got sepperated at 30... so even old love can break. but don't give up on nurturing the sapling that are your feelings. it can grow into a tree someday.

 

I believe that it is quite possible to fall in love with someone at a young age, well that is if you believe in love in the first place.

 

Hahah deep down everyone believes in love, whether or not they're held, or dashed to the floor.

lol

In love, to exceed oneself is entirely forgivable. The crime of moderation though, even when forgiven, brings the more painful regret!

 

Is young love real? It feels like it and who is to say otherwise.

Whether it is as long lasting or as deep as old love is not the question.

Yes, young love is real.

 

It is very real. I still have love for the guy I was with from 15-19 but we're not togeather anymore.
At that age everyone grows up a lot and changes, and you may end up being very diffrent people. So even if you still love that person a few years down the road, you might not be compatiable anymore.
I do know quite a few couples that are in their 40-50's who got togeather in their teens and they love eachother to death and get along great.
It all depends how things fall.

Love is natural, dont worry about thinking about it or question it, just go with the flow. If you follow your heart, weather you stay togeather for the rest of your life, or break up in a few years it will feel like you did the rite thing.

 

It sure is. A lot of adults will tell you different, but perhaps that is because they are bitter or never fell in love at a young age. I think it is easier to mistake something else for love when you are young, but love occurs just as frequently. Sometimes purer too, untainted by bad experiences and expectations.