I'm in my 40s, bisexual, and have a strong desire to give and receive handjobs and blowjobs at adult book stores. I mainly find women attractive (especially their feet), but now want pleasure with men. My attraction is mainly confined to their cocks and I enjoy heterosexual blowjob porn from the woman's perspective. Is is safe to give and receive oral sex at adult book stores? I'm concerned about catching something as my immune system is weakened by meds. Is it safer to chat with men on sites like Bateworld first? (I love showing dick pics btw). I had trouble registering with Doublelist as my phone number isn't recognized.
I wish I could help, but I have never entered an adult bookstore with the intension of giving or receiving a blowjob. Good Luck.
Early in my sexual exploration with men I went to an adult bookstore/arcade with similar intent. It seemed like a good idea at the time but it ended with somewhat of a disaster as the guy who was servicing my cock through the glory hole neglected to lock his door to his booth. Well his friends who he came with thought it would be funny to open his door and catch him jerking off. They were very surprised to see him with my cock in his mouth, and he was very surprised to see them see him. So aside from that adventure, I think there is always a risk of catching something from someone you don't know. Having said that I know of guys that go to one and have for several years and not had a problem. Good luck.
Well it might give you the opportunity you desire. I would think it's mostly safe or the practice would stop very quickly. But, I passed on an opportunity because I didn't think I could be into the guy in the cruising lounge. Never got back to the city to try . Never been sucked off by a guy but here's hoping. Good luck
There is always a high risk of contracting an STD when you have any kind of sex with a stranger - and the more random partners you engage with, the risk increases. It's the risk you take when you engage in a public setting such as a bookstore with a glory hole in the booth, or at an XXX theater such is in my city - or when you hook up through a dating site or Double List. That's why it is very important to find a clinic or have trust in your own physician to talk about this, get tested regularly for STDs, think about getting a prescription for PreP which helps drastically reduce your infection of HIV, and use a condom if possible. That's my advice. That's what I do. Not to be a debbie downer - but the only safe sex is abstinence or monogamy with a trusted partner. But, I don't abstain, and I don't have only one partner.
Do they still exist? I thought that dirty book stores and peep show booths were things of the past. Many turned into Romantic Adult toy stores.
I second what PapaSmurph said. If you are going to a bookstore, take some flavored or unlubricated condoms designed for oral sex. Once your cock goes through that hole, you lose some control. You don't know how many other men he just sucked and has there cum coating his mouth? If he has cold sores on his lips or mouth? Or he could just back up and fick you bare, unprotected? One thing that is odd, from the few times I went in my younger years, it was both slightly erotic & slightly disgusting from the scent of sex being overpowering? From the pheromones and smell of sweat and cocks, to the smell of untold loads of cum in the booths. Or bleach if they had been recently cleaned.
There is a bookstore near me that has an adult section, to browse, nothing else. But I have met a few guys with similar interests which has led to some great fun. Sometimes only masturbating while watching porn, sometimes that develops into mutual stroking and the oral.
There’s one here in Rowland heights … Stan’s Hand jobs are safe but BJ’s you should wear a condom to be safe.
I discovered gloryholes right after high school and I loved it. I was young and stupid sometimes not caring about diseases. I would visit them regularily when in college there was a bookstore just down the road from my apartment. Lots of hard cocks wandering in from the strip club.
My first time with a guy was at a bookstore. I had made many trips there, would watch porn and jerkoff in the booths. Finally I got the nerve to allow a guy to join me. It was great although a bit strange. But that was my start. Over 49 years ago. Now my sex is always with guys or myself. But I don’t do bookstores anymore. I have a few friends and have lick at times, finding guys on Doublelist.
The porno places in NYC used to be fun. For a quarter you could watch a couple fucking right in front of you. The best was when some idiot stuck his head through the opening and the window came down on his neck like a guillotine.. Emergency crews had to free him. A bit embarrassing.
I occasionally go to Adult Bookstore arcades when I am very horny and on a long road trip. Like someone else said, hand jobs are safe, but oral requires that you walk in with a couple of flavored condoms and use them. Wash up right after getting off. I'm glad that these establishments exist for those times when you just need a good release. Some women and much of the public are not willing to admit how useful it is for a man to have a strong orgasm on a regular basis. Men who are sexually frustrated tend to be cranky and unhappy.
I started with book stores. Now, I go very little. I'm a lot older, so the ground in younger. I would prefer to find an older partner and meet up once a week and play. But, that's even hard. Been looking for avenues to explore, but so far just dead ends. I went to a book store/video store the other day, but left after about 45 minutes. Just couldn't make the connection. Still never know when an undercover cop might be cruising the area. Any suggestions, pass them along. I have been on a few social media accounts for my area, but nothing has panned out. I did get caught by my wife, trying to meet a guy on doublelist and it was either cancel the account or go see an attorney. It was the only real site to find a local that I could find.
OK you asked for suggestions, so I will pass on mine, which are made in order of success rate, with the most successful (in terms of what you said you are looking for) at the top: 1) Whenever you have the opportunity to talk about real stuff that goes deeper than small talk, practice your social skills by spending more time in conversation with both men and women. 2) Go to some venue where men get naked with each other, like nude beaches, hot springs, gyms, clothing optional campgrounds, or resorts, and the like. Strike up a conversation and see who might be on the same wavelength as you. I met a great friend at Valley View Hot springs in Colorado, and another one at a local 24-hour gym. Something about getting naked evokes greater honesty about our human needs. 3) Consider if any men you already know have been sending you any type of signal. One such guy I know had, and we took our friendship to a new level. 4) Pay attention to men who strike up a conversation with you in stores, at work, and in other public settings. If you have something in common, talk about it and see if there is any other chemistry happening. In my experience, adult bookstore arcades and sites like Doublelist are mostly used by guys who just want one-and-done, because they lack social skills or are ashamed of their bisexuality or fear the wrath of their wives. That's OK under certain circumstances, but not so good for your stated objective.