Is This Wrong Of Me To Think?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by butterfly712, Oct 4, 2014.

  1. butterfly712

    butterfly712 Members

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    Is this wrong of me to think,yesterday when my bf left,he left in the morning,he had all day off,but choose to go back home in the morning,I had all day and all night to spend with him on thursday,and I cherished all day and night with him on thursday,but he choose to go back to his house in the morning on friday so he could go and party with his friends,including a girl that is just a friend he says,am I wrong to think that him having a party with his friends is more important then spending time with me?He lives 3 hours away from me.Should I confront him about what I think?I don't want to upset him.
     
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  2. ginalee14

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    You aren't his girlfriend or he would have taken you to the party with him. That's what I think.
     
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  3. IMjustfishin

    IMjustfishin Member

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    find yourself a guy who can be "just your friend" and then you wont be so jealous.
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    so he spent a day with you and a day with his friends? just based on that, it sounds having a party with his friends is exactly as important as spending time with you.
     
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  5. butterfly712

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    Yes,I agree,I don't know what I was thinking,I know that he loves me a lot,and would never hurt me,I understand that he just wanted to be with his friends,and that's ok.

    no,I'm not jealous,I understand that he just wanted to be with his friends.
     
  6. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    What matters is if you feel you need someone who rates you as a higher priority.
    If you do, you know what to ask for now and look for in the future.

    Decide the type of relationship you want. Don't just take what comes.
     
  7. aesthetic

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    I found a lot of things to reply to in this thread; I figured this would make things easiest to say.


    Dont be afraid to talk to him about anything your feeling, if the dude doesn't par up with what you want or expect from him.Trash his ass, girl you got better men to fuck.
     

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