I made out with this one guy that I like really much.We weren't dating but I was the one who started all the more spicey conversation and,well,it lead to that.The spicey conversation only came as subject a few days ago,until then it was all small talk and a lil bit of flirting. So,that afternoon with him was really great and we both did things we never experienced before(like,well,some kind of touches...) and he cared about me and even asked if it was good for me and all.Before we left,he even gave me a few sweet kisses in the lips. Later at night when I logged on msn he had written something along those lines "One says that what you do is right,well I don't know if I'm right or wrong,that's the question...".We talked a bit,he said he had something to tell me,he said that he had a wondeful noon with me and that he loved what we did.He also said that he really liked me,but there was a girl he liked even more(this weren't exactly his words),and that he hoped that nothing of this would affect our frienship which was really important to him. Of course, my heart fell to my feet when I heard this,'cause it always hurts to know the truth,especially 'cause he is a guy with whom I have many things in common and I never met a guy like him before.And I am sorry to not get to know him sooner. What I'm really wondering is if it is possible for a guy to like 2 girls at the same? Any advice/opinions on this would be really helpful!Thanks in advance for the replies!
Yep it is possible, I infact have been in love with 2 girls at the same, or so I thought at the time. But yea it's possible to like 2 people at once, in my perspective anyway.
i was just talking about "liking", not "loving"... and i was a lil blunt cuz i found it really really innocent of CRachel to think that because this guy made out with her it meant she meant a lot to him.. if a guy says he had thex only with girls he had feelings for, he's lying
Actually we didn't have sex(just touched and kissed).About a month ago and a half,that's when the whole story began and he said he liked me,but also liked very much another girl,and this continued until now...
Haha well said, well said. And Crayola I know you were talking about liking, I was the one talking about loving, silly.
sorry to disagree again tool.. put out to make him like you more will only leave you feeeling used guys (and girls..c'mon dont act so innocent) can like more then 1 person at a time, feelings can get confusing, i'd say just dont get too attached or involved untill hes more sure what he wants.
There's this 20 year old girl where I work, and she's really cute. And really into all the attention she's getting from the 100 or so men who work there too. The guys are 30's to 60's. Very few any younger, and none her age. Everybody talks to her, including me, and she's like I said. Really cute. A few of the guys are trying to bed her. They're being really subtle about it, and taking thier time cuz they know if she see's what's going on she'll bolt. But it's there, and worse yet there's a sort of competition building up to see who can get there first. They have girlfriends (or in a few cases, wives) outside work. THAT'S the truth about guys when it comes to sex. Period. If it were'nt your guy would have mentioned the other girl BEFORE he stuck his hand down your pants. Now, some guys'll say "That ain't me!", but I'm saying while it may not be chances are it is. And if you want to not be used, you better assume it is and make them prove otherwise. Hell, at least make them work for it. Just what I've seen (and done, shame on me).
