I'm 23 and I miss someone terribly. He used to be my everything, but I learnt he cheated me, and chased him. We still talk to each other and he wants me back, but each time I think about it, the sight of the two dating each other and making love crops up. I know I need him, and at some point in time I even went out with someone, which he once saw. He apparently doesn't care whether I dated this guy or not. All he wants is for us to become a couple again. Actually, I wonder whether it's really worth something or if I'd rather give up. I need your advice...
listen to me...ive gone thru this shyt too...there are two thingz u can do... either get back and start doing other thignz in life and thru him...try keepin ureself busy...thru him meet u people...start chilin wid adars....and be a bitch basically...u don have to leave him after that...seeing u chilling...he wud definately wanna be more closer to u... other option is just leave dat dick for what hes done...completely ignore himm if u think u can chil widout him...if he sees u chillin..hel fuckin regret bad...but if he sees u sittin sad al day ..waitin for him...or just doin nothin in life..hel be happy dat hes nt wid u and wil easily move on...
Work on yourself. If you are feeling longings and feeling unbalanced, that is pointing you to a direction within yourself where you need to discover and heal something. Read a *good* book on relationships, one about how relationships, any relationship is about growth - not about happiness. I offer you a list that helped me "How to be an Adult in Relationships" by somebody Richo - (buddisht perspective) "The Power of Now" - not about relationships, but about finding the kind of inner peace that will help thru all your life "If the Buddah Dated" - Charlotte Kassel - about relationships as a part of your spiritual growth
