is this bad?

i love animals, i love life and my family.
but i strongly dislike people in general. i know how evil and selfish people can be. i find it hard to trust anyone. there's only 2 people aside from my family that i trust. and i don't really know anybody who is alot like me lol. and i don't let anyone know i have a sour attitude towards people's selfishness, I never talk about it because nobody likes a complainer :S

 

I wouldnt say all ppl are bad, there just difrent, with there own views and values,

 

Imho...
Don't see it as your problem you can't talk to others about this. It isn't your problem. Don't be anti-everybody but do take care and find out what people are really like. If they are genuine it won't be difficult to spot. If they are not then tentatively challenge them and see if it is a one off or a fatal personality trate. Then have it out with them. Some people will hold their hands up and confess and try and work on the relationship, others won't. You will soon find out who your friends are. Trust me. As for other people in general: Keep it purely shallow. Friendly, but shallow.

 

yes,bad....you are a bad girl:devil:







definitely do not trust me:mickey:

 

Can I borrow fifty dollars until I get paid?

 

I don't like people either! Always walking around and stuff. Why can't they just stay inside their house?!

And I especially hate clouds!

 

yeah i mean i won't hurt someone. i just don't let people into ~my world~

 

Yeah... clouds SUCK! I wish they would just stay gone instead of always coming around and making it snow and rain... stupid clouds... :{

I don't think it's bad. There are only a select few people that I trust. And even then, I can only trust them with certain things. I've become sort of a recluse lately I guess. After an accident and a lot of trust issues with my friends. They'll tell me something horrible has happened and I'll confront them about it later on and they tell me it never happened. Like 'what? you specifically went off about it for about an hour and now you tell me it never happened??' I think what iit is tho is they were going by word of mouth and trusting what someone else had said come to find out it wasn't true at all... idk man, people are weird. I treat everyone I pass as a brother or sister until they do me wrong... but at the same time, that doesn't mean I can trust them. I say keep people at a distance, but not so far that you rarely ever see them. There are some good times to be had out there, don't deprive yourself of that just because you're afraid something bad will happen. Without risk, there isn't much gained... but don't put yourself into immediate risk so as that you get yourself caught up at someone else's fault. It's tricky, but there is a madness to the method.

 

Its because I'm a scorpio scorpios find it very hard to trust others

 

What about Taureans?...or did you only find out about your own star sign?

 

Generally speaking, I like and trust people from the get-go, unless and until they give me reason not to.

 

If you don't let people into your world, then it is odd to complain that people don't fit.

If you find it hard to trust others, that makes you untrustworthy, because mistrust has at it's disposal, only suspicion at best, to viciousness at worst.

 

Uh-oh. I'm taurus and scorpio. Anyway, you just have to get used to the way people act. Some good-some not so good. A strong bull-shit detector helps sort 'em out. Some say you get back what you give out-but there has to be a balance there,because some people can disguise their intentions very well.

 

i'm pretty much the same way doll
i'm also a scorpio but i'm not sure it has anything to do with that
for me its been life experience
i have tons of social "friends"
but as far as people who i really allow into my "world" as you put it
there are very few
it is very hard for me to trust people
but i doubt it is really very healthy

 

The I am I call myself is the same I am you call yourself.

The guy behind the counter is every bit as fucked up as you are.

 

I'm pretty wide-open with my trust. Maybe that's because I've learned that some things that used to hurt no longer hurt, and also I've learned a lot about how to take care of myself if people try to do something truly harmful.

 

wtf?

 

Imagine that the person you're talking to is you talking to yourself. It might show you a few things about that person and about you that you didn't think about before.

 

no i totally get that
i dont hate other people and i do think im actually a pretty compassionate person
its just as far as trusting other people enough to make myself vulnerable
thats something very different

 

Do you trust yourself enough to be vulnerable with yourself?