Is there such thing as a perfect person for you?

Title pretty much says it all I want to ask if anyone here has met that special person they can do almost anything with or talk about anything. I know married couples that seem to lead different lives like they don't know each other so what made you want to start a life with them.

Do you think there is someone out there that shares enough of the same interests to keep a relationship going? I guess i am speaking about a soul mate or some sort. I had my fair share with the ladies and its like not many can hold an actual interesting conversation all they want to do is shop and bitch. I mean no disrespect but I get bored with them. I ask them to go do things with me and they arnt interested so I ask some other chick and they think I'm the devil. I am guessing many people on here are married but how many are actually satisfied?

This is my first post so sorry if it is not up to standards but I am curious.

 

Good question.
Yes for some people there certainly are soul mates but for others there may never be or they might not know.
I kind of wonder if monogamy is a good thing or not are we really meant to have just one partner. If so then why do some people have affairs. We know that in the animal kingdom not every animal has just 1 partner.
The thing is you might meet somebody and everything about them is perfect so you get scared and try to find something wrong with them. Its the Seinfeld syndrome that's what I call it anyway.
And yes I'm married sometimes happily some times not. We work at it, it doesn't come easily.

 

I'm not sure. I have a feeling you have to keep on adding interests, though. Individually as well as together. You don't want to be a pansy lacking ambition.

 

I do believe that there is. Up until a few months ago I thought that I had found my 'perfect person' but now I am not so sure and it has pretty much turned my entire world upside down.

We used to share the same goals and dreams... now, not so much.

 

Yes there is. Now I just hope I meet her before I'm old and weary

 

I already found him!

Unfortunately...he is complete, total and absolutely unattainable

 

I don't really believe in the concept of soul mates. I think it takes many people to fulfill everything a person needs emotionally. My boyfriend is great and we see eye to eye on a lot of things but he doesn't get everything about me and I don't get everything about him - that's why we both have friends and individual lives in addition to our relationship.

 

Sorry to break many bubbles, but there is no such thing as the perfect partner. There is, however, such a thing as acceptance.

 

I've found a keeper! He's sweet, smart, funny, and a big dork like me. We like a lot of the same music and movies. I haven't found many people that like The Hobbit as much as I do. Lol. I swear we could probably talk without actually saying anything to each other as much and as well as we can finish each others' sentences. I could go on and on, but I'm sure that would get annoying. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me though and all the little things like us busting out into the time warp dance just make it more and more obvious that I should probably marry this one in the future.

 

I know what you mean, I used to think alike...not so sure anymore.

 

:grouphug:

 

So you think you found the perfect person for you?
That can mean one thing, you are in love. :2thumbsup:

 

Oh youth

 

Ofcourse there's such a thing as a perfect girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse.

I won't use the terrible word "partner" because thats for homosexuals, yet there are attempts to force it on everyone else...

 

I got a person like this.

 

Hey now, I'm not THAT young. And I've been through enough bullshit to know what I want and what I don't. I finally have someone that actually gives a shit. I don't think I've had anyone in my life that treats me as well as this man does, and that includes my own damn flesh and blood. He literally saved my life, I would've starved if it weren't for him. I don't know what I'd do without him. Good thing we're getting married next year so I don't have to worry about it. Lol.

 

I have been married for a year now (we have been together for 3 years) and am very happy. She is super cool and very understanding and we have a great time together doing whatever. I never want to be with anyone else and either does she..

 

Jealous...

 

My wife was the first girlfriend I ever had but I did have other girls as friends before that. Some of them were casual sexual encounters that didn't involve intercourse.
She's not exactly the best sexual partner I wished she was but I cant change her old fashioned values she has about sexual acts that others seem to have the pleasures of enjoying. I get to enjoy what she allows me to do even thou I have tried improving her sexual abilities at times. She seems to dislike some things others see as being very acceptable. Oral sex is now forbidden, anal touching is totally wrong & getting her to touch my penis is too challenging sometimes. So just what is wrong with her getting to do that ? Maybe getting cum all over her hands is too gross ?
She does have positive things she's good at though but the sexual & intimate side of our marriage is not as good as it could be. She seldom lets me kiss her on the lips anytime. Only during sex & I always have to make the first move to initiate sex as she is poor at initiating sex. She never asks me for it or shows she's wanting it unless I do something to get her interested in having it.
Sometimes I just feel like I want to have an affair with another woman who does like being intimate & who can show they like me enough to kiss me even if sex doesn't always occur.

 

I don't think so, no. Love is work. . Not to say some people aren't BETTER for you than others, or less work.