Doubt you’re going to have much success asking ransoms on the internet, but in real life just coming out and asking can actually work - once you’re flirty/connecting with someone cutting to the chase can work. Years ago a guy came out and asked me after we’d been drinking together, dancing, kissing a bit, and I gave it to him. I probably wouldn’t have if he hadn’t asked but I had no regrets. Asking for what you want can be hot
I think the OP gave up on us, keep it going, this thread is hilarious! I'll go after you. We can cum swap. Maybe our wives can film it.