Is there a Right/Wrong way to masterbate????

It seems that most guys use their hands. But I dont. I usually lay on my stomach and rub against the matress.

Is that a bad way to do it?

 

Ummm...unless by mattress, you mean bed of nails, then...no. I really don't think there's a right or a wrong way to do it...long as you get the job done and don't take advantage of anyone to do so...

 

This just seems like a better way to do it since the feeling of the bed against your body simulates the feeing of a partner rather nicely. So I guess I'm just surprised I dont hear about it being done like this more often.

 

i thought this way was called tms? its upposed to be dangerous.

 

yeah, I had heard that that style of masturbation did actually carry some risks if you did it all the time, as your only method and frequently

unfortunately, I forget where I read that, and how trustworthy that source was

I think the biggest concern is if that becomes the -only- way to get you off, ie a girl can't make you orgasm through oral sex or even during intercourse, then it's definitely a concern

 

Well I don't tie myself up or nothing, but I've been on the scene with a magazine. hasn't killed me yet.

 

never mind

 

As long as you don't harm yourself or anyone else, have at it. Its your own business. Don't worry, and just enjoy.

 

At one time or another I've masturbated in the following ways, all with no apparent lasting ill effects:

• Hiding my penis between my legs, pretending to be a girl "doing it" with a boy and ejaculating "backward" beneath my butt (my first-ever method of masturbation at the age of 10), either in bed or in the shower
  
• Lying face down, pretending to "do it" with a girl and ejaculating beneath my tummy, usually pretending my hands were the girl's vagina
  
• On rare occasions, "beating off" with my hand in the standard male manner
• Plunging myself between my thighs in the shower with a shampoo bottle, pretending it was a man's penis--sometimes with my penis sticking out in front, others with it hidden between my thighs and the shampoo bottle rubbing against it
• "Edging" while drawing sexy pictures, sometimes rubbing my penis raw, sometimes involuntarily ejaculating in my pants or panties

There may have been others, but these are the main ones I remember. I was afraid I might be harming myself when I pretended I was a girl and ejaculated "backward," but I wasn't--I bet you're not either.

 

There is no wrong way to masturbate....

Unless you are using a screwdriver, then you are doing it wrong.

 

Straight to the point I guess

 

Stand against bathroom sink. Balls resting over inside bowl. Fuck left hand.
Shower head on balls good too.

 

How can there be a right way or wrong way to masterbate? If you have an orgasm it was done right!

 

But it's not necessarily true that if you then have another and another and so on, they were all done right. It's reported that male porn addicts can actually become impotent to have sexual intercourse with women as a result of their ceaseless pursuit of orgasms through porn. There's some wisdom in the idea that it's better to try to hold off unless and until the pressure becomes overwhelming. Having a multitude of orgasms is not the supreme good in life.

 

That is how I used to do it when I was young, then I discovered the value of a moist hand. Never went back.

 

The only wrong way to do it is 'not often enough'....

 

I disagree. There's also such a thing as "too often," "too long," or "at the wrong time." When I was a teenage boy, I sometimes rubbed my wiener raw while drawing sexy pictures and masturbating at length. Later on, I sometimes deprived my wife of the intimate attention due to her because I played the shemale in fantasy and masturbated. I'd say these were wrong ways to do it.

 

True, it's best not to let it become an obsession or focus in one's life.

 

I don't think that you will ever get a definitive answer as to what the right way to masturbate is. I tend to feel that there is no right way or wrong way as long as you enjoy it, it doesn't hurt you, doesn't hurt anyone else and you achieve the desired results, which is orgasm.

 

I think there is definitely a wrong way. All I know is when I'm in my bath tub, and my head starts to slip under the water because my thoughts and feelings are elsewhere, I'm doing something right.