Is She A True Friend? Or A User? Help!?!?

I have this friend called Rachel we have known each other about 5 months now and we used to be really close. I used to stop at hers every Sat, she used to stop at mine every Fri.. We used to spend almost every day together.. we have another friend called Jenna and she used to come out but she stopped coming out and started going to her sisters flat and staying there all the time... so she never came out so we only saw her at skool.. last Fri Jenna asked Rachel to stop at her sisters flat and she agreed...

I wasnt bothered because afterall we had spent loads of time together so maybe Jenna missed her .. well anyways that night I got a text off Jennas sister phone.. it was rachel saying omg i got to tell you something.. im on r Joannes phone so ill ring you at 12.. (joanne is her older sister..) Now she wasnt texting me off Joannes phone at all so i think maybe she didnt think I'D have Jenna's sisters number? Anyway at 12 I got a phone call off a withheld number I answered it and It was rachel saying Jenna split something allover he sisters rug and blamed it on rachel so Jennas sister kiked her out..

ok.. i didnt say anything i was just like oh .. ok... because I had the bigggest feeling it never happened.. it was all a trick to try and get me to bitch about Jenna or something.. because she told me she was at her sisters house (joannes) and that she had to babysit.. i could hear a child noise in the background so i was statring to believe her.. until she said that the kid was 2...

WHAT?!!??! Joanne doesn't have a 2 year old! BUT JENNAS SISTER DOES!!!
omg does she think im completely STUPID?? omg...... and then the next day they both had the nerve to come round to my ask n asked if i wanted to go out when i asked thought u two fell out they said oh no its sorted now anyways i havent let on or anything i know but its really annoying me..

she spends months with me.. and now she wont even stop this fri or come down... she says she doesnt no what shes doing.. but yet she stopped every other night with no problem at all? i dunno if i should talk to her no more.. i mean she noes my biggest secret of all time and im afraid if i fall out with her she mite tell the whole skool.. that wouldnt be good... i dunno what to do


help please??

 

im a little drunk so maybe its me but i have no idea what the drama is about

fuck whatever they did, give em a second chance and still be friends with em til the out and out attack you, mmk.

 

So.. Im confused Your mad at her cause she went to someone else's house? I dont see how that could brake up a friendship, unless your jelouse. Or is it because you think she was trying to "fool" you? If its such a big deal ask her about it. ps. listen to allonym's advice.

 

i can't give advice until i know what this big secret is...

 

i dont wanna say the secret incase sum1 on here is from my skool :S sorry

 

Even if some1 from ur skool was here... they would have a hard time finding out who you are, unless they also called you "What2do" @ school too
I already know ur secret anyways!

Honestly what you wrote was pretty confusing... a lot of names and not a very well defined conflict. I'll be happy to give you my opinion as long as I know exactly what you're talking about.

 

im not tellin u the secret end of convo..

 

Sometimes girls can lead you on because they think its a good way to spare your feelings :barf:
Wheather or not they do this to other girls though, I wouldnt know

 

Is it possible that she was babysitting Jennas sisters kid at Joannas house?

My husband and I have identical cell phones, and once in a while I accidentally grab his phone thinking its mine. Does it make me a liar if I say I am on my phone? Innocent mistake, not intentional malipulation.

My main question is why are you making such a big deal of this? So what if she lied. Maybe she was at a guys house and wanted an alibi, or didnt want you to know. Could be a lot of things....but why worry about it?

 

i was just joking, i don't really care about the damn secret...

 

Well she even admitted she was lying wen i confronted her about it..she said jennas sister told her to ring me to see if i liked jenna or not or summart...

 

so she wasnt at joannes house she was at jennas sisters the whole time