Is Porn Okay In A Sexless Relationship Ship?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Builtuplikecrazy, Nov 27, 2016.

  1. Builtuplikecrazy

    Builtuplikecrazy Members

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    Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 2 years now, we've talked about sex many times. But she still says she's "getting comfortable." So I've been patient and I tell her it's alright, whenever you're ready. Is it then ok for me to use porn to help my urges until then? A lot of people frown upon porn.. thoughts? Thanks. We do oral stuff.. but I want to have full on sex.
     
  2. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Let Me Get This Right.......You Have Had A Girlfriend For 2 Years Without Sex.......And In The Faint Hope Of Finding

    A Solution To Your Prob........You Choose To Join This Forum........You Are Truly Pathetic..... :sleeping:



    Cheers Glen.
     
  3. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    I bet she wants full on sex too. Who knows. Maybe she is.
     
  4. Builtuplikecrazy

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    I came here seeking advice to whether it's alright to still whack off to porn without feeling guilty.

    Hey glen, you're an idiot. Cheers.
     
  5. louislundy

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    The downside of too much porn though is "porn induced erectile dysfunction" which is very common nowadays for young guys. Do some proactive activities instead of engaging yourself that you would regret in the long run. Just my 2 cents. :scholar:
     
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  6. pensfan13

    pensfan13 Senior Member

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    We knew that for years.
    But we like him that way.
    At the risk of pissing off the people that defend people like you...
    Who the fuck cares if you wack your salami until it bleeds white stuff while looking at a magazine or movie?


    Welcome to the site...got any real questions?
     
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  7. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Honestly if you’ve been going out with her for 2 years and haven’t engaged In penal insertion then I’d seek pleasure elsewhere.

    Too much porn isn't healthy, so the best option Is a prostitute


    Hotwater
     
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  8. OldDude2

    OldDude2 Newbie

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    When I were a lad, we used to say "If she won't put out in two weeks, move on"
    I rarely returned for a second date, if I didn't score on the first.

    You've either found a girl that doesn't like sex, or a girl that doesn't like you.
    In either case, it's well past time to move on.
     
  9. Rots in hell

    Rots in hell Senior Member

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    Are you even Allowed Porn on a Ship ?
     
  10. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    Actually, I had a gf that was like that! We went out for quite some time (I don't remember how long but it was for at least like 6 mo.) and all we did was go down on each other like rabid dogs, mostly me going down on her. It was really cool though. I liked that relationship. But I had been in a relationship with full-on sex before, so I did sort of wonder what was goin' on. I wouldn't think about it too much honestly.

    As far as porn, I bet that would destroy her trust if she found out. Just abstain if you can.
     
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  11. NoxiousGas

    NoxiousGas Old Fart

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    Sexless Relationship Ship

    So is that like the anti-thesis of the Love Boat?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_wFEB4Oxlo
     
  12. Builtuplikecrazy

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    I appreciate some of your comments, but why such negative responses? If I piss people off for no reason, that's more to do with them than it is to do with me. I came here with a simple question, if it enrages you, that's on you. Respond or "piss off." Thanks. I love my girlfriend very much, maybe I'll work on the porn usage then. Thanks to the folks who responded appropriately.
     
  13. Builtuplikecrazy

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    You're right. I should stop porn. Thanks bud.
     
  14. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    :D

    This is as good as whatshisname's dating advice threads. I hope this is a joke. XD
     
  15. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Or a girl that's getting it elsewhere.
     
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  16. VerySexual

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    I'm with Piaf on this one. She's getting it somewhere else was my first thought. My second thought was, does she even know that she is your girlfriend? My third thought is...I wonder if she has been raped, sexually abused? Have you ever asked her about previous sexual abuse? There's always the concept that her pussy isn't built right and intercourse is painful for her. Are you ready to commit to a woman who has pain while you get pleasure?

    Of course watch porn and jerk off! That's what porn is for! What kind of porn do you enjoy? That could be a clue as to your differences with your gf.
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    is there any reason to assume this guy's not like 14? it's not THAT unusual for a teen girl to want to wait to have sex.
     
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  18. Builtuplikecrazy

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    Damn. Just realized it said "relationship ship".. oh well, anyways, I'm 23, and she's 22. She did mention her last boyfriend was extremely pushy, she tried once and it hurt a lot for her. She's very tight as well. I know she isn't getting it elsewhere. Yes, she knows she's my gf, lol
     
  19. Builtuplikecrazy

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    Not a joke just for your information, thanks though.
     
  20. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    REALLY? Wow....

    I've never slept with a guy on the first date. I wouldn't even let my now husband put his hand up my shirt on our first date.
     

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