is my girlfriend a s*lut?

I met a girl,
She is a 22 year old white american,
she told me most of her personal stuff,
sexually active since age of 14, slept with about 30 men, had anal sex, one of her men she slept with was black, and one Hispanic (nothing racial), had an abortion once - got noked up in college..
we have fun, drink and party, inside my head i think she is a who... and i need to stay away from her.
The reason i am asking i am eastern European and she is American, I do not wort to over judge her, cultural differences maybe in effect.
What do u think? Am I right?

 

no.
if you think you should stay away from her then you should.
shes a slut if youre dating and she cheats on you. or sleeps with 5 guys a week.

 

Whatever you do, make sure you strap on a jimmy lid!!! Or two!

 

Dude of you have to ask this question, get out before your stuck with her because of pregnancy. If she has slept with that many people why would she stop with you. Take it from me my wife's sister is worst than that and the dude she's with is stuck now because she had two of his kids... As far as he knows. ( they aren't his ). Good luck brother.

 

1) you can fucking say whatever shit you want on here. no need to censor slut or whore.

2) what is a non-racial hispanic?

3) you don't give enough information to determine whether she's currently a slut. it sure sounds like she used to be though.

 

Do the math.

Sounds like a former whore to me.

 

i just love this.

if we guys do alot of fucking with different people, we get the honor of being a 'stud.'
if gals fuck around with alot of people, they get the dishonor of being a 'slut.'

i guess some things are just never going to change.
:sad:

 

I wouldn't sweat it to much, shes a woman of the world and shes lived her life- she's opened up to you, told you the truth some ladies need to go round the block before they chill with the one. If your having good times let it go it can eat you up otherwise!
Good luck :2thumbsup:

 

this... you are completly right..

and that tooo..

people are really judgemental...
This is why many people end up lying about the past and whatnot...
Because people just judge... you are judging her from before...

Maybe she is done sleeping around and really want to have a real relationship... Be happy shes honest with you.. she could have just told you a few or half that number...

I think you should go by how you feel.. if you think shes no good then dont keep her there are a million girls out there she isn't the only one.

 

I'm down wi' dat.

But srsly,,

I wouldn't care (disregarding the possibility of her being the carrier pigeon of some atrocious disease), as long as when you look deeply into her eyes, and she into yours, she has that "look", the one that says,,"I'm going to eat your toes and steal your wallet while you're sleeping".

 

if you think being a dirty guy with genital warts is an honor, more power to you.

 

Man fuck the past. Who gives a shit what she did. If you think this about her.. Well then don't mess with her. But regardless of what you think this time, Note for next time... Don't worry about who someone once was, worry about who they are now. Carry bricks from the past, and you will build the same foundation. Though that wouldn't relate to you, twist it around and think... "If I think her past is who she is now, then I will fuck it up"

 

I like slutty girls. They know how to party!

 

^ Legit.

 

Thanks, i hope this is why she told me her personal staff, she wants to get serious with me, so i am need to just let "it go" or let "her go"..
it a decision a need to make, I have had a lot of women, however she is different, at least for now i think like she is.

 

That is a good mind set- forget the past now go outside and have a blast! Many moons ago I was with a partner who never had a closed relationship till he was 27 I made him go for tests then we lived happily together for nearly two and a half years- he went back to Australia and at the time I had too many commitments to make the move, I don't regret the time we had together but his past was full on, he was bi too and I had to accept him for who is was with me! Just enjoy being in love, its the best feeling in the world :love:

 

You have a girl who takes it in the butt. She is a keeper. That is all.

 

Amen to that.

 

She has slept with 30 guys at 22 and has been active since 14... Are people on this thread for real with the 'slut' label!? Some guy says 'she will be sleeing with 5 guys a week'. 5 guys a week from 14-22 = 30? are you stupid? Thats about 3.5 guys a year... so what?

When did we all become so damn judgmental? 'She has sept with 30 guys thus is not relationship material' - would it be the same if a guy and girl swapped places? Argh this is actually almost too infuriating to put into words. Recently my gf told me she had slept with more guys than she led on, why do you think she lied? Because she was afraid of the same judgmental BS that this thread is all about