Is my dick too small to take a woman's virginity?

First a little background. My dick is pretty small, about 2 inches soft and 4.15 inches hard. It's about 3.7 inches around. I'll post a picture if you want.

I've never had sex with a virgin before and I told my gf this. She said my dick was probably too small to take a woman's virginity. She wasn't trying to be mean I don't think. But she has commented as have every woman I've ever slept with that I'm small. I know it. But is my dick really too small to do this? I've actually heard this twice now. The first time I just shrugged it off. Now I'm wondering. Thanks :ssmokeit:

 

Yes. It is way too small.

Next question

 

I didn't mean to piss anyone off. I know women can lose there virginity in a bunch of different ways. I'm just asking if in your own experience...or knowledge, is my dick really too small for that. Peace.

 

No!

 

What exactly do you think is entailed in the taking of ones virginity?

 

Do you think you need to ream her out with a broom handle in order to "take her virginity"?

Dude, dick inside vagina = virginity taken.
If you think you need to hurt a woman, or rip open her hymen, you should probably stay away from virgins.

 

You can only take a hobbit's virginity with that. Good luck.

 

yeah, way too small. the good news is that you can bang the shit out of all those catholic girls who are saving their virginity for marriage.

 

You're fine. Drumminmama is right, you're still within the average bracket. Daisymae is also right about the "dick in pussy = virginity taken" thing. So that means, NO, your penis is NOT too small to take someone's virginity. Your girlfriend sounds ignorant, unless she was being sarcastic.

Speaking of sarcasm, anyone(besides yourself) telling you your dick's too small on this thread is being sarcastic. Unless they are actually being mean. But who cares? Just know your dick is fine if it functions fine. If your girlfriend has an issue about your penis size(maybe she doesn't, but she sure doesn't sound respectful from what you've told me so far), then dump the bitch. There are girls out there who really don't focus on the size aspect or, for that matter, actually prefer smaller penises.

 

We are not talking about pleasure or ideal size. We are talking about the ability to break through a piece of skin.

If your penis is bigger than the women's hymen you are penetrating, then you sir, are an able "virginity taker".

 

Actually, it is NOT necessarily about "breaking through" their hymen. There are virgin women whose hymens are very small, non-existent, or even pre-torn via other means, to the point where NO further tearing in that area might occur upon losing their virginity. Fortunately, the OP's penis is large enough regardless.

 

I just wish you luck in finding a Virgin.

 

"my penis is small, it won't count" might actually convince them. Like all those people who have every kind of sex but vaginal for years, until marriage, and think it counts.

Note to self: look into micro-dick-plasty.

 

They are actually around. I'm currently involved with one myself. BUT, I'm a virgin too, so she and I kind of have that to bond over as well.

 

They are around but they are few in numbers. Good luck to the two of you.

 

Thanks!

 

Being a virgin has nothing to do with age. Being a virgin means you've never had sex. There are a lot of people who have never had sex. Breaking the hymen is a physical act. Actually I've found that there are still a lot of virgins. Some people still wait until they are in love and some even wait until marriage. So yeah, they're still around. They didn't stop making them in the 1950's or anything. My question isn't about being about being able to satisfy a woman sexually. Women who are still virgins typically are not looking to get laid.
However, breaking the hymen (if her is still intact), is still an important part of it all.

My question is only about the physical ability to tear or break the hymen with my dick being somewhat small.

Thanks

 

Well the hymen is at the opening not buried deep inside so it would depend on her hymen and how it is shaped and your girth not your length.

 

There are many cultures that have varying definitions on just what a virgin is.

Some believe that the term 'virgin' refers only to the female, totally disregarding that there has to be a first time for the male also.

While most of us may consider that a 'virgin', in the strictest sense, remains that of someone who has never experienced penile / vaginal penetration, yet there are some cultures who believe that mere knowledge of anything relating to the sexual process defines the loss of virginity. Others may take it to the next step to include any form of sexual contact, such as mutual masturbation. It is also believed, by many, that limiting sexual activity to Anal Sex retains the 'Virgin' status.

Who is to say who has the correct attitude. They are, after all, only variations on a theme.