Im farely attracted to my roommate in college, but he is straight and has a girlfriend. is there anyway possible to have him fuck me sober? i really want him and he thinks im straight and i actually have a girlfriend too. but since neither girl is here im pretty hot....this isnt fake i just am really turned on by the thought and i wanna do it....
I don't know if I speak for anyone else here, but I never saw bisexuality as an excuse for cheating. Because you like 2 genders doesn't mean you get to have more than one at a time without consent. The way I see it, you don't love your girl, so you might wanna save her later hearbreak and end it now anyway. Or do you love her?
I see it as more about being honest with her that unless she has a proclivity to give you anal penetration, then you are more bisexual than you think & you need to take a break & example YOURSELF... If you can assess your attraction to men vs women and DISCUSS it openly like a man, then there is hope for you & your girl. I have a couple questions: 1.) is your girl "fashionably bisexual" or even interested in other women? 2.) has your girl ever been exposed to gay porn while you were present? what was her reaction? 3.) does ANYONE besides "Mr. Happy" & your heart strings, know you are attracted to your roomie? Quick history: been there done this.. My current (2nd) wife is open minded, not bi in the slightest, & lives by "live-let-live". When we first started dating 10+ years ago I broached the subject of M-M sex (not GAY) just men with men. She said she didn't know. We've watched porn together in our relationship so I slipped in a truly MM-F bisexual vid . It took a couple different vids before she said she wasn't into the M-M thing. Fine.. So we TALKED about it. You would be shocked @ the # of women, especially STRAIGHT as an arrow women, really get off on M-M sex. Suck it up (pun intended) TALK TO HER if you really love her... other wise seek out bisexual women/groups who can be more empathetic... good luck...
