is it okay..

to have sex with someone on the first or second date?

if you're both in a committed relationship with someone else?

because you find them a lot more attractive than who you're with?

even if it was just for once?

 

Please be joking.

 

define "okay."

it's an asshole thing to do to your significant other, if that's what you're asking.

 

Are you layering these questions on top of each other or are you asking them separately?

 

I'm confused about why you would be going on a date with someone if you're already in a relationship with somebody else..

 

To be fair, nothing about the OP's post has directly implicated her that the above questions are about herself/himself.

 

If you're in a relationship and on a date with someone else you might as well sleep with them

 

fuck everybody, who cares..

 

NoT unless you have thier permission to do so.

 

wow, a dumass of the year candidate. This person must really be joking. To answer the OP, yes it is wrong, your morals are screwed if you think other wise.

 

yes...but you must then throw it in the face of your partner....this is good for a minimum of 2 years of ''hurts'' before it will get old and you will need to do another incredibly insensitive and selfish thing

 

The OP must be a troll... but just on the very remote chance that she/he isn't a troll, no it's not okay. People who have that attitude shouldn't be in a commited, monogomous relationship in the first place. Anyone who thinks that decieving and lying to your partner about sleeping with other people is okay should only be in an open relationship.

 

I would be happy to have a partner - certainly wouldn't cheat on them if I did :bigcry:

 

Ditto over here. lol Some people don't realise how lucky they are....

 

OK. Here's my perspective. Right now I have 2 "partners". Both know about eachother. Neither is really committed but I fucked both on the first date (seprately).

If you are in a commited relationship as long as your partner knows and is OK with it you should be golden.

Attraction is a tricky thing. I am openly attracted to different women for different reasons. And the sex that I'm having is different with each partner, the dynamics are different etc.

If everybody is on the same page it doesn't matter how many times you do it as long as everybody knows and is fine with it. Just play safe.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

lots of people have these sentiments and then shit hits the fan and they lose these very same sentiments.....what flaws are preventing you two from having partners?...i know my flaws...there are many...but what is wrong with you 2?

get together?

 

That's none of your business. DMFP can speak for himself. And don't go judging everyone else by your own standards.

And no, I think that DMFP is gay, so there's no chance of that happening. lol

 

I agree with tazer, it's only ok if you're in an open relationship which permits it.

 

is it still considered cheating if it was just meaningless sex?

 

Cheating is when you break someone's trust. If you told your partner that you were going to be messing around, and they gave you the 'go ahead, its fine' - then that isn't cheating... If they didn't know about it, and you had meaningless sex... that is the epitome of cheating...