This is common for me, and I'm not necessarily asking this in the hopes to come to a conclusive judgement on my sanity. But I imagine this might be common for other people...Quite simple When you are infatuated with someone, either someone you are friends with and have a little crush on, or if it is someone you saw that made you feel love at first site, had a brushing in with, and think this person is totally your type, them in the situation totally seemed mystical and full of synchronicity and meaning.... Do you begin to imagine yourself being together? I think I shouldn't, that I should hold off on the daydreaming as much as possible, but in some cases it's so strong, it was such a sharing of amazingness, that I can't even help imagine and see it all played out in a way that is open to all the possibilities. Share, if this is something you can relate to, please.
completely normal. as far as healthy goes, i think as long as youre aware of the possibility that your daydreams may not come true, i don't think its unheathy.
i think she's hit or miss, but when she hits, it's right on. And as far as this, yah I totally realize that. I've been dissapointed enough to handle it.
i think everybody's done that at some point. it's like holding an outfit against your body in front of a mirror before you buy it... it gives you an idea of what it's like superficially, so even if you are just brousing, you can imagine inaccurately how awesome it looks on u haha i was going to say "what harm could it do?" but i guess lurking in the bushes at her house and collecting her toenail clippings because you're the only one who knows you 2 are "together" might be a sign of trouble.
Hahaha No. I think I'm pretty sensible, I think I am just caught up in the seredenpity of things. I had a friend be like that about me though, she still has problems, she bothers, me but I gave up saying no just her caring about me. Now she is my "friend" and my best friends, like closest girl friend. What the fuck. They talk about me behind my back, and they basically made that clear. Not great "friends" because they have their own mental issues and are so self centered, and I would say overall treat me with more disrespect than care. I'm not going to go into the details of the motivation of this post, and I'm not going to claim anything about destiny, but I would say timing tells. I am more turned on by the mystery of it, and the unknown aspect, but with the impression of the first few original times. After the first, our mental paths could have crossed, and life is what you think. Edited, also, No assumptions. I see it as a fresh unknown, except the known air over someone. You can feel someone's temperament just by taking in their presence. And I'm not talking about psychic things, more so tangible to emotions. I guess it's like thedope said, neurochemicals.
lol you're welcome... is that a joke though? Or are you sincerely wishing me happy daydreaming.... Ha, I hope to see things happen by chance, and take advantage
not so much a joke, I've been daydreaming about a friend of mine for the past year. finally had to make myself stop because it started driving me crazy that nothing can ever happen between us, but he was certainly a pleasant distraction for a long time. anyways..I forgot my point. daydreaming can be fun? :leaving:
I woke up this morning with the sun down, shining in. No, but seriously, I am missing a night of sleep, I still woke up this morning, but with an obvious depletion of my neurochemicals. No daydream was a possible daydream.
It may sound like a blessing, as soothing a word as it is to someone who wakes between cool sheets after weeks of fever.
I'm pretty much immune to chicks, nowadays. I do think a lot about what kind of chick would be a great friend, someone I could actually run the streets with, and fall in love with, not in some relationshipy sense, but in a higher sense. But it's a very blurred image, even frustratingly so, and most times she appears so ridden with contradictions, a single person could not embody them. Sometimes I confuse myself...is she middle-class? Is she a punk rocker? Is she a black girl or an athlete? Does she have piercings? Does she wear eye-liner? Does she smile at strangers or keep to herself? Would we fuck the same afternoon we met, or would we be friends for 7 years before fucking? Is she close to me and the problem is only that I haven't noticed her? Or is she non-existent? That ideal person is also strikingly similar to myself...only, she's a chick (unfortunately, since I don't like chicks [aside from platonically, or in bed]). But, recently I've come to terms with the fact that I don't have that person as a platonic male friend, either. Or maybe I'm gay and I don't know it. Or maybe I'm bi, and it doesn't matter. Or maybe I am straight, and miserable. Or maybe that ideal person is a prison, and true freedom is never having met that person. I basically neither trust, nor admire anyone I know. But, that also means I admire little things about many people. Either way, I'm happy with the way things stand.
