is it normal for guys to have gay thoughts

Been wondering forever never tried it but and nota attracted to men but seeing dick makes me so hard plus always wanted to see what its like getting fucked in the ass

 

It is normal if you are gay or bi and there is nothing wrong with that! As a straight man I can honestly say I never think about another man in that way.

 

what is normal now-a-days? Just be yourself that's all anyone can ask of you.

 

Try inserting a dildo or large carrot into your anus & see if you like the feel of it. Then imagine it's a real penis or you just get some pleasure out of it ?

 

I've never been attracted to guys either, but seeing a certain type and size of penis really gets me aroused. I only fantasize about stroking and sucking a cock.

 

it's not that the guys want to see a big hard cock, they just want to see the girl actually enjoying sex rather than sitting there looking bored because there's a little wet noodle flopping around in her.

 

Sounds like you are bi-curious. If you keep having these thoughts and feelings, maybe you should give gay sex a try. On gay dating/hookup sites, it's pretty easy to find decent men to have sex with.

I fantasized about oral and anal gay sex for years and finally tried oral last year. I can say reality doesn't quite live up to fantasy (does it ever?) but I enjoyed it for the most part. I decided I'm not gay, at most bi-sexual, but even at that, I can't ever see having a "relationship" with a man. I just find the sex fun. Eventually I'll try anal as well (as a bottom).

 

it sure does

OP - just go with your desires and feelings; 'normal' is what you are!

Simon :sunny:

 

I think it's a pity that men in today's society feel they have to classify themselves as 'straight', 'gay', or 'bi', rather than just enjoying who they are and sexually doing what they find pleasurable. I suspect that for almost all men there's something inherently sexy and arousing about a hard cock - and I think that for many it's just their anxieties about whether that might make them 'gay' that prevent them from acknowledging and enjoying that.

 

Cant really tell you if its normal, but i have gay fantasies on a daily basis.

 

it is perfectly normal to have homosexual thoughts. it is just the modern age we live in that has made it taboo. dont worry yourself. have you ever thought of making these thoughts happen? sexual exploration can lead to a much better understanding of ones own self.

 

Sexuality is not a matter of choice, it depends on your hormonal balance. Because of this there's no such thing as Gay or Straight, just varying levels of Bi. Just where your preference lies depends on your balance of male or female hormones. For millenia people, usually driven by religious fanatics, have forced what is nothing more than a natural state underground & kept it as a taboo. Only nowadays is science finally beginning to understand how things work & as a result are varying sexualities beginning to be accepted for what they are.

 

I think that becoming excited watching a vid of 2 guys together and wanting to
take one up the ass are 2 VERY different things.

 

The ass bit is one thing that you may or may not like. However, being attratced to or wanting to see other men's cocks is pretty normal and it is just as normal to want to engage in some mutual cock play. The perennial problem is finding the right guy so that the feeling can be mutual.

 

until you do it - then you may have a very different opinion, getting fucked can be a huge turn-on and give you maybe your best orgasm ever

Simon :sunny:

 

Not me. I almost exclusively watch lesbian stuff. Seeing a cock hard or soft is a major turn off for me, no need for it.

To the OP: you say you're not gay but think about cock and getting fucked in the ass. Guess what, you're at least bisexual. Accept it and move on.

 

I agree.

BS. Because you say so? Believe it or not, there are guys out there that have no interest whatsoever in men/penises. Years ago, I actually tried to be bisexual because I had a lot of gay/bi friends, but it just didn't click with me. I am 100% in love with women/pussy.

I'm sure there are other factors besides hormones. So if I take female hormones I'm going to become gay? I doubt it.

 

Yes, gay guys normally have gay thoughts.

Face the music.

 

Thank you. How can someone have gay thoughts and not be gay? (not that there's anything wrong with that)

 

In this day and age of video porn and webcams it's difficult not to think that way in your fantasies. I never ever use to think of males, on way but that's changed, just like I never ever seen males in drag, but some can really arouse you.

 

if the guy is gay or bi, then yes it's perfectly normal.

 

I never disputed that. I simply said it's a sliding scale. You say that you're 100% straight? Well, I doubt it's quite that much, especially seeing as you said that you once 'tried to be Bi' (which, incidentally, I respect you for & give full credit where it's due for even accepting the possibility), but could well be in the upper 90s and, of course, the same sliding scale goes for the other extreme.

Just remember that every male starts off as being female when in the Mother's womb. It's only later in the development of the foetus that the Y chromosone comes into being.