For the last few years, sex has...well...sucked. (and not in a good way) I used to love having sex and feel like I still do but everytime I have sex, its not good. The last time I had good sex was 2002. (and I got the kid to prove it) My question is basically this, does sex just get bad after a certain age? I'm 26 and maybe guys my age don't fuck as good as 19-year-olds. Or am I just dating limp, small dick arkward men? It has gotten to the point that I can live without it. I don't even feen for it anymore. I kinda consider it a waste of time. p.s. Just to verify that I really did love sex at one time, know that I have 4 children.
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i think your just in a slump , guys who are 19 dont even know how to fuck ,even if someone has tried to show them .let alone care about doing there best to see their partners joy as their aim. its all about the fact not the act with most guys , and some never outgrow that . most girls are just starting to realy know and enjoy themselvs at your age.and some have yet to ! as far as guys + girls go , even if they start young , things get better and better through to twice your age .....life has its ups and downs and this is prob. what is up.
Yea.. I think you just haven't fucked the right person yet. I've been where you're at and thought I was doomed to a life of miserable celibacy or at best pathetic sex with an untalented, unconcerned partner. Turns out I just hadn't met the right man for the job. I finally did meet a rockin' lover and am still with him now.. AND we still have really great sex 31/2 years into our relationship. He was the first one to make me cum through oral sex. I never thought I'd EVER be able to achieve that but I did. And lemme tell ya older guys definately know how to work me way better then the younger ones. I've found that young guys are far too concerned with their own selfish needs to give much thought to whoever they're pokin' at the time. They might be nice to look at... but that's about it. Of course I'm sure there are some really good young sex partners out there; I actually did experience some when I was younger, but I'd have to say they are rare. Don't worry hon... you'll get sauced up by someone. Don't give up hope!
I mean , I've done the meaningless sex thing..wasent any good untill this one guy? no loveiong emtions between us, but more like well, I dont know... it's like...he set me free sexually yaknow? there was like no pressure no stress about it, just fun we always had fun..we ended on good terms too.. I dont know not advice really so much as a statement lol i was going somwhere with that really damn ADD
You're probably tired out doll! After all, you've got 4 children to look after! Your libido has gone south for a while more than likely. Hey, cheer up, as women, we haven't even hit our sexual prime yet. Peace.
Why if a woman is not satisfied the guy instantly becomes a limp-dick? Perhaps older guys are just a little tired from working, the responsibility of family etc to be hanging from the ceiling screwing you senseless seven nights a week. If women are not in to it they'll take a weekend away with their friends and everyone will say 'aw, poor dear, she's all tired'. And why can't the woman make an effort? When's the last time you really excelled in bed? I was once with a girl who looked at me while watching TV and said "Remember you promised you'd fuck me later". Damn, that really did it for me - I was like a porn star with that sort of motivation...
Oh yeah, I forgot- It's also true that if a woman doesn't feel like sex then it's her decision and good for her - if a guy doesn't want sex then he's obviously gay or some sort of pussy... "That's right ladies, come right up - pull my left nut and I'll fuck like an animal, pull the right and I'll fuck like two of 'em. "
