Is it just me or does anyone else find anal overrated?

Before ever trying it, I remember it been all the hype with me and my friends at uni. We would all go on about how awesome it was and how girls who had anal were the most fantastic girls on the planet. Now after having tried it three times (giving of course) just thought it was something very overrated. I remember the first time I tried it and how uncomfortable I felt, I kept praying when I pulled out I didn’t bring any brown surprises with me. Lucky enough and thankfully the women I did it with have all been clean. Maybe its just me but I was expecting something grand and was very disappointed, anyone else felt or feel that way?

 

I'm so happy to see this! I won't ever engage in anal sex, it just isn't something I'm even curious about. Because of this, I'm forever told how shallow I am, how I should be willing to try everything once and how selfish I am for depriving it to any man! So, it's really nice to know that even a guy thinks it's overrated. Thanks for posting.

 

Unlike you I was someone that was very curious about anal sex, having watched countless porns with them in it and being an ass man it seemed like the ideal thing for me. Needless to say once I tried it I just thought it was very unnatural and uncomfortable, I cant say your missing much by not engaging in anal. Although others will disagree but to each his own I guess.

 

Well said. I don't think I'm missing out on much either. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything!

 

not me =)

 

I've said this before in other threads but I'll say it again. I've tried it more than once, using the proper techniques and lube, and I just don't like it. I have a better place for a man to put his dick. Two better places, actually.

 

Agreed, definitely overrated. But Oddly enough, even though I have tried it a few times and don't really like it, the idea of anal sex still really turns me on. Sometimes during foreplay I will fantasize about doing anal and it really excites me but I don't actually enjoy doing it.

 

You have to ask yourself this question:

"Self, do you have hope in your soul,,or soap in your hole,,?"

 

I never had the slightest interest in it. I had a gf who mentioned she liked it and I figured if she asked for it I'd do what I could to accomodate, but it didn't happen which I guess was just as well. She also didn't give or receive head, which was no big deal but now that I think of it, it sounds like sort of an odd combination, that she was into anal but squicked by oral.

 

:cheers2:.. cute..

 

It is overrated- I was persuaded once to try it and it was not enjoyable, and I wish I hadn't done it at all.

 

its naughty and something relatively unique, however, its really overrated.

 

I'm a woman and for me anal is seriously enjoyable. Things obviously feel better in my pussy but I have anal pretty often, and sometimes even only anal, no vaginal intercourse.
Now, from hearing the opinions of guys who have fucked me, most actually say my pussy feels better. So, OP, I think you might be right.

 

It's not for everybody. I love anal. I have it with my girl at least once a week, and she loves it as well. To be honest, she asks for it more than I do.

Atleast you tried it, and now you know it's not your thing.

 

i have found it really depends on the ass you are fucking

 

now thats a fun thing to say

for me, as a male, i have to say that a good vanilla fucking is better than anal - there are simply some things a woman cant do with her ass.

 

I've tried it: not for me. I'm glad someone posted about this, because I always see the threads in which people exclaim how much they love it. Now I know: I'm not alone.

 

I have tried it a few times (I'm female) and it does feel really good if I'm relaxed enough. Most of the time I get too nervous/uptight about it and it just doesn't work well. My fiancee likes it a lot, but he never gets mad or pressures me into it if I don't want to. He is the only person I have ever tried it with, so I have never had a truly bad experience with it because he is so good to me. I definitely wouldn't recommend trying it with someone you don't completely trust.

 

Interesting thread topic. As much as I hate to say it, I think that when all is said and done I will probably end up agreeing that anal is "overrated", at least on some level. However, that's not the same as saying that it's boring or uninteresting or unenjoyable.

First of all, the idea of anal sex really turns me on. I love the female ass, and the thought of plunging my cock deep inside one (a cute one, that is) is very exciting. My cock has been inside exactly one ass (my wife's), and exactly one time. It was a pretty amazing experience, for both of us. It brought us closer together (emotionally/spiritually) than ever before, and actually marked a change in our relationship that has paid dividends ever since.

But here's the catch: it wasn't really all that physically stimulating for me. Despite the fact that the idea of anal sex is more exciting to me than vaginal sex, I have to admit that my wife's pussy feels a lot better than her anus. So, in that sense, I am tempted to agree that anal is overrated.

HOWEVER: Consistent with the advice of every anal sex tutorial I could find, I wore a condom during the entire time I was inside my wife's anus. So, I have to think that the condom had some kind of effect (presumably, negative) on the sensations I felt and thus my overall evaluation of anal sex.

So, I'm left to wonder what it feels like without a condom...

 

I dunno, I'm SO down for teh buttsecks.