Is it important to you to know your partners sexual past?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by bigmannn, Jan 25, 2009.

  1. bigmannn

    bigmannn Member

    How important is it to know what your partner has done sexually in the past? Is it essential? Do you not care? Or do you just not want to know?

    Heres a few questions I was thinking to keep the topic going as far as someones past.
    -Do they have to be a virgin?
    -does it matter how many people they have had sex with?
    -if they have dated one of your good friends previously and have done alot of kinky stuff...would that be an issue?
    -would it bother you if they ever did porn?
     
  2. Fuuunia

    Fuuunia Members

    -Do they have to be a virgin? Oh no! :)
    -does it matter how many people they have had sex with? Nope.
    -if they have dated one of your good friends previously and have done alot of kinky stuff...would that be an issue? It wouldn't...
    -would it bother you if they ever did porn? If it was long long time ago, I wouldn't care..

    Actually knowing my bf's sexual past isn't important to me (as long as I know he's completely healthy - you know what I mean), but it's more likely that I'm curious about his sex past. And yeah, I really am. :tongue:
     
  3. missie

    missie Member

    Do they have to be a virgin? No

    Does it matter how many people they have had sex with? Yes. It might give you a little more insight to the type of person they are. Like for example if the number of people they have had sex with is unusually high – one might conclude that they might be a sex addict or a ‘player’. Which can mean difficulty in maintaining a stable relationship.

    If they have dated one of your good friends previously and have done alot of kinky stuff...would that be an issue?
    It would be an issues if my good friend was uncomfortable with us being together in the place. If she’s ok with the relationship then all is good. If they have done kinky stuff together, I don’t want to know the details – but knowing what kinky of stuff you could be getting yourself in for is important, like I might not be comfortable with doing…. whatever, so that would be an issue for him and for me.

    Would it bother you if they ever did porn?
    Yes
     
  4. -Do they have to be a virgin? I wouldn't care either way, but I would kind of feel strange sleeping with a virgin.
    -does it matter how many people they have had sex with? Nah, more experience = better sex. I think the only thing I'd be concerned about is if she's never been tested.
    -if they have dated one of your good friends previously and have done alot of kinky stuff...would that be an issue? I would feel awkward dating any of my good friends ex's because all my good friends are guys!
    -would it bother you if they ever did porn? Yeah
     
  5. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

    -Do they have to be a virgin? No :p
    -does it matter how many people they have had sex with? No, not really. Well unless it was like a ridicilously high number, then yeah, maybe..
    -if they have dated one of your good friends previously and have done alot of kinky stuff...would that be an issue? Wll to begin with, I don't think I would go for someone who had been with a good friend of mine. but I guess that would depend on how serious they were and how long ago it was..
    -would it bother you if they ever did porn? Yeah, it would bother me a lot.
     
  6. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

    I truly do not care what has happened in her past. My only concern is her fucking someone while we are an item and that is only because of std's and the betrayal. I don't want to be with someone that doesn't respect/love me enough to remain faithful. I am confident in my own abilities in bed and I don't worry about who has fucked her or how good it was. I did when I was a teenager but I quickly grew out of it.
     

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