Is it hard?

Well, you see I was actually looking for some advice on my sexuality...
I've recently come to terms with the fact that i'm bisexual. But the thing is I only want to date guys not girls. I don't really know though, is it hard to supress your feeling for another woman when your bisexual or is it just as simple as telling yourself that you don't want to date a girl? (I've never been asked out by a girl or had a crush on one, but when every I see pictures of sexy women online I get well...turned on.) And I know there is a difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction but is it possible to have romantic attraction tward one gender and sexual attraction tward another or is it all relative?

I really want to know, please...
-Kat

 

I think you're gay mate.

I was called a bisexual by several women I date including my ex-fiance, because I was open about calling attractive men hot and didn't find two good looking guys making out as wrong.

I also liked to watch gang bang and anal porn and don't like to watch lesbian porn/bored of it and when I watch porn with a woman and a guy I need the guy to look attractive.

However, I get a hard on to a naked woman standing in front of me in a heartbeat and it's frankly hard to keep it down if she's in a skimpy outfit.

But of all the times I've seen an attractive guy naked in front of me in a locker room, etc, I get nothing.

So it's more of an openness than it is sexual orientation and I think in actuality you are gay.

You get turned on by women probably by some aspects that men have as well, like a great ass.

 

thanks, but that actually makes me feel...worse?

 

Refocus on the situation at hand.

You want to date guys. Cool. Go out and do your thing. Have fun.

You find women attractive. I do, too. Recognize the fact that there is a price tag attached to getting into their pants, too. That price is usually called 'dating'. So, if you come across a girl whom you find so attractive that she is worth your trouble, agree that the only way to fulfill your ambition, and get closer to her would be to date her a bit.

Finding a partner, buddy or even just a playmate of either sex is always a matter of negotiation. Admittedly, guys are generally a bit on the lighter side of this issue, and girls tend to be, generally speaking, a bit more restrictive.

Your task is to recognize the reality, and agree that there is something you have to do, like it or not, in order to get where you want to be. If it is worth your while, go for it. If it ain't... you are getting the picture, aren't you?

KD