Is it about your Identity of just pleasure for pleasures sake?

I have nothing to declare to the world. I have no feminine side or wish to be female. I simply like mindblowing orgasms and having another person come into my space while I enter theirs. My motto is when the climax is messy it was good sex. That's the heart of it. After a sexless marriage I am glad I have someone ready, willing and able. Even if it is outside of societies rules.

 

Note that politicians and corporations who have made their peace with these politicians do not validate sexual behaviour. They only validate 'identities'.

Then you should not write “another person” but “another animal”.

Are you saying that you have nothing in common with women? By the way, men who spend a lot of time in female company feminise, just as women who spend a lot of time in male company masculinise.

Apart from that, I agree with you.

 

Like all of us, one facet of my identity is sexual, as I'm a sexual being, but that's only one facet of the whole. I'm much more complex than that.
I have had sex that was deeply spiritual, and I've had sex that was purely recreational; "for pleasure's sake". Both in different contexts are equally valid. Neither negates the other.

My partner has called me feminine because I'm receptive (I suck and swallow), and I perform functions associated with female sex role stereotypes; laundry, dishes, vacuuming, etc. I'm not offended by being called feminine or Gay; to be offended I'd have to consider Gay males or women somehow inferior, which they clearly aren't. I am offended that my life partner would say such things maliciously, in an attempt to hurt me.

 

It's more about about accepting my identity and understanding that this is who I am. Both males and females are sexually exciting to me and it can be due to an emotional attachment or just the desire for "pleasure for pleasure's sake". I am more comfortable with the both/and instead of the either/or.

 

For me it's not about an identity. It's raw sexuality that I express with men and women for the sole purpose of giving pleasure. That's my pleasure. My identity is a lot more than my sexual passions. The bi stuff is just a small but important, one of many factors in my identity.