Is EVERYONE a little bit gay?

I've heard it said that everyone....EVERYONE has at least a little gay in them. Thoughts?

 

no, I think people can be completly straight.

 

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I think that we have a tendency to project our own sexual orientation onto other people. If you are straight, you might not understand how people can "do it" with the same sex. If you are gay, you may think that straight people are desperate and just have sex with each other because it's easy. And if you are bi, you might ask the question in this poll, assuming perhaps everybody is a little this and a little that.

I agree that sexuality can be seen as a continuum like the Kinsey Scale, but it's possible for someone to be totally straight or totally gay. How many fit that depends on how you want to define gay. Is it who you love or who you screw?

Also, someone who's profoundly homophobic (and totally straight ), may be hiding a latent bisexuality or homosexuality.

 

I heard that on South Park... Trey Parker and Matt Stone are geniuses.

 

YES!

i totally think so.

sex is sex. rub the right part the right way and it doesn't matter who it is. ...to a degree. i think it's just mental blocking that makes people decide that they'll never even consider having anything sexual to do with the same - or opposite - sex.

 

We are all Bi-sexuals!! Didn't you know that?

 

I'm not gay at all. I don't have anything against gays, but I can't go for that, no can do, no I can't go for that.

 

At least most people who come to this forum will be at least a little bit gay, knowing it or not.

 

Very well said. I dont think its good to assume what people are, I would think it would be stupid, probably insulting if I went saying to lesbians that they must like blokes somehow and to gay men they must like women. Theres nothing wrong with being gay, straight or bi, people are different.

Why not ask the question if everyones a little straight.

 

Everyone has some "flexibility"

Younger people are more flexible. Preferencs harden with age.

 

exactly.

 

asking if everones a little gay or a little straight is not going to get the answer your looking for being gay straight or bi is about how ppl identify themselves not about if theyve ever felt attracted to the same or opposite sex. it is entirely possible for a gay man who exclusive fucks other men to have sex with a woman and enjoy it this does not mean that he is bisexual and it works just the same on all ends of the sextrum.
i believe everyone has at least one homo/heterosexual thought or fantasy in there life this doesnt mean u r gay or straight it means u had the thought in ur head and u found it pleasing now some ppl may suppress these feelings for fear of being a social reject sex is sex all animals have all forms of sex that humans do aside from the real kinky shit

 

Yup, everyone is theoretically gay, bi, and str8, too. In terms of an underlying potential. Some people act on some of those 'gay' impulses and the others do not. A significant number of people would try once or twice and leave at that. Most develop their own sexual preferences and stay with them for a very long time. All that is fine.

Concluding that since everyone is somewhat 'gay', you may land them in your bedroom (or somewhere else for that matter) would be simply stretching the truth a bit too far.

The coolest thing about this whole sex chase is that we all learn that no one, absolutely no one has any monopoly here and that everyone, no matter how hot he or she may be, gets rejected ever so often. Equally so, sex knows of almost no impossibilities. You may end up discovering that your super str8 stud friend likes to get down on his knees before other dude(s) ever so often, if the circumstances are right.

So, the only rule is that there are really no rules...
KD

 

THere's a scene in trainspotting where the main character goes on a rant about this, that you're attracted to whoever you're attracted to and that "in a thousand years there will be no men and women just wankers, which is fine by me". Thats my favourite view on the matter.

 

I'd say maybe. I think there is a spectrum, but that purely biological imperatives have meant that people tend to fall at or near the ends of it rather than in the middle.

I think a lot of the time the issue gets confused by people's own perspectives. If you wanted to push it, you could argue that anyone who can appreciate good looks within their own gender is "at least a bit gay". In my opinion, you'd be wrong to do so, as the way one appreciates beauty doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex - a) you can appreciate beauty in things which you don't want to have sex with, and b) there's plenty of people who'll fuck things/people they don't find attractive.

If you regard sexuality as fluid, the question of orientation becomes totally meaningless. Even if you do entertain the possibility, what are you asking someone who claims a sexual orientation? For all I know I really haven't met the right girl yet. But an orientation is a tendency, not an absolute.

So basically I personally believe that you can fuck someone of the same sex without being bisexual, just as you can fuck someone of a different sex and still deem yourself homosexual (something I suspect a few of you can relate to).

 

I'm amazed no-one has yet exploited the comic potential of "a little gay".

 

Yep, yep! Been there, done that, still call myself a dyke.

 

I think its called everyone is human. We all have thought about it and have a tendency to act upon it.

peace
chickens

 

no everyone is not gay. in order to reproduce you must mate with a vagina wich are most commonly found on females

 

you would be entirely right ... if humans only mated to reproduce.

besides, it's "is everyone a LITTLE bit gay" wich is like... is everyone really bi.

would anyone, in the right conditions, get off on/with a person from their own sex? i say yes, provided the right circumstances. so everyone has it within themselves to be turned on by the opposite sex - wich is "a little gay" or bi.