Is Deep Throating Overrated?

The question speaks for itself. I recognize that it's a skill that, if you can learn it, that's great... but if you can't, should you try to? And is it mandatory to deep throat a dick whenever you suck one?

 

Aside from any sexual attraction to do so, or what it may feel like the immediate concern is that it is possible, just as it is with the medical procedure of an Endoscopy, the recipient of the phallic appendage cold experience not only discomfort but it is possible to damage the Pharynx or even the Esophagus.

You have to weigh the possibility of Damage vs the Pleasure. If you discount the pleasure of the person inserting the penis, do you truly want to risk causing damage to someone else's airway?
I'll grant that someone people actually thrive on the pain and discomfort of certain sexual practices, but I have to believe that the majority would not risk permeant damage tot hemselves for someone else's momentary pleasure.

You an equate this right next to Autoerotic Asphyxiation. While you aren't wrapping your hands or a belt around someone's neck, Deepthroating is still blocking that person's airway and cutting off avenues of breathing.
While it would take someone excessively large to reach all the way back and push through the esophageal sphincter, Pharyngeal blockage is almost assured. At that point,even trying to breath through your nose won't work for you.

So, Is it overrated? I can't say. Is it Dangerous? Yes, I believe that it poses a danger and if improperly done could result in permanent damage or even death.

 

As with everything I have experienced in my sexual adventures, no two are the same.

I had someone deepthroat me and the visual was more pleasant than the physical, but appreciated.

Someone else doing it gave me nice sensations, that was it.

A small handful who did it were on a different level. As soon as the lips started working, I felt the tingling that said I was going to cum later on, and I moaned whether her mouth was on the head or anywhere on the shaft.
Then the others who kept me leaking precum and semen during the entire time, making me look bigger and bulging from how much I was stimulated.

In the end I said it’s not overrated if with the right person. Or it can be ordinary

 

It's no big deal. I prefer skilful variety. Suck the head, work it good, take the full length as just one part of the act, but suck that big boy. I'm doing just that in a days time after none for 13 years and I'll give that cock everything I've got.

 

I think it's very overrated. I would much rather that someone just give me a good, passionate, regular blowjob, instead of trying to suck my cock down their throat. Besides, if I wanted to feel like I was fucking something I would shove my cock in her pussy!!!

 

My wife has too much gag reflex to deep throat, but she still tries sometimes, then gets overwhelmed and ends the whole thing... maybe end in a hand job. So I insist that there's no need, hang out on the head, that's where all the sensitive parts are anyway lol.
I can't deep throat either, but I do sometimes get guys thrusting when I'm giving them head. It's a huge turn on until it's too much...

 

Respecting limits such as gagging is important, that’s where deepthroating is not a must and getting a blowjob on the head and top part of the shaft is very pleasant. No need for more than that and I would never be able to complain
But for those who enjoy doing it and do it well, the sensations of lips at the base of the shaft send those sensations that are appreciated and enjyoed.

 

I learned how to do it and before I ever heard of Linda Lovelace and "Deep Throat." With my friends, taking them "deep" was easy since none of us were all that big and developed (and not like teenagers were and, um, other older guys). I thought that since guys liked to fuck your mouth once your sucking got good to them, that was why they would try to stick all of their dick into my mouth and, yeah, many bouts of gagging and barfing before I learned how to swallow a guy's sword without all that messy stuff - and guys liked it, sometimes it made them cum "faster" or "a whole lot" and many of them were surprised that I could do it and at the age I was - 10 or 11. The word on the street was about girls who could take it deep - or they couldn't or they wouldn't and guys talking about them in unkind ways because they couldn't go deep - but I could and would and it was one of the things I felt cemented my rep as being a good cocksucker (and on top of being very willing to swallow).

I felt that it was a necessary skill to learn but would learn that... not everyone can learn it. I never expected girls/women to take me deep and I learned to appreciate it if they could but not hold it against them if they couldn't - and the same with guys and I couldn't be a hypocrite; if I wasn't going to expect a girl/woman to do it, then I wasn't going to expect a guy to do it. Even with myself, I knew I could deep throat any guy I could get my mouth on... and sometimes, I didn't want to and, really, I didn't need to - but it's always an ego boost when you take a guy down deep and he tells you that no one - or few - has been able to do that and, well, I just did and you're welcome.

But in a time where face- and throat-fucking is becoming a thing - and that's not cocksucking as far as I'm concerned - is deep throating overrated? I think that it is and more so if a guy expects someone to be able to do that to him - and then he cops an attitude if it doesn't happen.

 

depends on the person giving you head, i've had some try and fail and it just wasn't that great, i've had others be able to deepthroat but their overall skills were lacking, then i've had others that had the ability and the skills and it was out of this world

 

Honestly, I've never gotten to...it just doesn't fit. She takes it down as far as she can a few times during, but with me it's all about the head and tongue work. I think deepthroat is a pretty strong visual and just getting the longer strokes would make it more erotic. I don't care what she does with it as long as it occurs ... and I get the big finish...

 

Deep throating is definitely not overrated! Yes it took a lot of practice with dildos and learning how to do it with real cocks. I am petite so it doesn’t take a huge cock to be able to get into my throat. I will say the first few times were painful and I have scratched my throat from time to time. And yes, hitting the esophagus opening too hard at the wrong angle can be really sore for a few days…in a sense it is more like bad heartburn and cramps. Nowadays, once well lubed and on my back with my head hanging down, I can take any virtually any length cock and any girth if slow and steady. I literally studied sword swallowing and it’s really getting the line up just right and being lubricated and relaxed.

oh…and I absolutely love getting it or giving it!

 

You're an absolute legend. Love your enthusiasm for sex.

 

Thank you!

 

It's so refreshing to hear from girls who love sex. All my lady friends and 2 wives are so in sexual denial, not game to open up and enjoy themselves. Pun in there somewhere.

 

Well if I can help in anyway here online, you can open me any way you want

 

Deep throating is certainly not overrated IMO. It is an awesome skill to acquire and be able to share with others. I've never held it against anyone for not being able to do so as some people will just not be able to open their throat in order to do so. For me, when I started sucking dick it was something I was hoping to be able to provide. I found that it wasn't as easy as I thought. After having given blowjobs to 6-7 different guys of 7-9 inches in length I bought a 10" dong to practice on. I decided that if I am going to acquire this skill, I need to practice a lot. Yes, I would choke and gag on it while practicing and learned that using the slimy saliva from deep in my throat as added lube, I was able to get 8+ inches of this dong into my mouth. After having practiced a lot, I hooked up with a guy that was close to 10" and so excited on the drive over to his place. He was just wanting a blowjob and made it clear to me that he didn't suck dick. I was perfectly fine with that because the photo of his cock he sent me really turned me on and so excited to suck on it. Well, I was on my knees doing my thing for about twenty minutes choking and gagging on this big sexy cock when all of a sudden having about 7" of him in my mouth I open my mouth as wide as I could, took a breath of air inward and worked my head down on his cock and down it went as I had his entire cock down to his balls. HE LOVED IT! I was so proud of myself. I was able to repeatedly deep throat him until he blew his load in my mouth. I finally did it and have been doing so ever since.

 

Messaging with you could be quite aDICKtive, but I'm sure we could pull it off.

 

Love your first time story! It was similar to me, but I never had the gag reflex…only time I’ve had a little problem is when a guy is pulling back into my mouth while cumming and I get some cum in my trachea if I take a breath…that will cause a panic choke. I’m better at timing breaths now!

 

I am sure!

 

No deep throating is not overrated and I love deep throating guy’s hard cock’s and I love when they shoot a big load of their cum down my throat yummmmmy