Introduction - Lauren5158

Discussion in 'Transexual and Transgender' started by Lauren5158, Mar 22, 2023.

  1. Lauren5158

    Lauren5158 Newbie

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    Hi, all! Like a lot of others, I am shy about getting started. But the best way to get started is to take the first step. So here goes...

    I'm AMAB, 74 yo. Knew who and what I was at 7 yo. But, hid it from my family, friends and co-workers. Shame and guilt, and then concerns about my professional status, in a male-dominated industry, kept me from being open and honest and authentic in my everyday life. Now retired, I am beginning to change and turn my whole life around.

    Looking back now, I wish I never would have worried about the things that kept me from presenting and living as my authentic self. Quoting a line from a song: "...got a long ways to go and a short time to get there..."

    I want to and will savor every moment I now have left as I live as my authentic self.
     
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  2. KathyL

    KathyL Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Welcome, Lauren! Whatever age you start, you have the rest of your life ahead of you. It only makes sense to live it as your true self. Congratulations on your progress.
     
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  3. 6Sailor9

    6Sailor9 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Welcome Lauren!!;-)
     
  4. Lauren5158

    Lauren5158 Newbie

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    Thank you, Sailor! Looking forward to new friendships!
     
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  5. Dianne with 2 nn's

    Dianne with 2 nn's Members

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    Welcome Lauren! reaching retirement age tends to free one's inner self! Many happy days to you!
     
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  6. Lauren5158

    Lauren5158 Newbie

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    Thank you, Dianne(with 2 nn's)!Life is just as hectic as before retirement! The great difference is that the "hecticness" is filled with my choices, whims, wants, and "needs"! :tonguewink: :dizzy: :wink:
     
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  7. Piobaire

    Piobaire Village Idiot

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    Welcome from North Carolina.
     
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  8. Lauren5158

    Lauren5158 Newbie

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    Thank you, Piobaire!
     
  9. jamie_oth

    jamie_oth Supporters HipForums Supporter

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    Hi Lauren. Thank you for recounting your own story here. I remember when I was in my early teens I fretted because I believed I was the only boy on this planet with these feminine inclinations. It’s a pity that we couldn’t have known more back then when we felt so isolated and guilty. Might have helped us make our way along a different path. But alas, it is what it is… Nice to meet you.
     
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  10. Constantine666

    Constantine666 Members

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    Welcome ... I'm sensing another Jerry Reed fan out there ;)
    Enjoy the stay. Like the Guitar man said ... "When you Hot, You Hot!"
     
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    Welcome Lauren
     

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