Althoug there is this general idea everyone would like to settle down with one person, i would like to know if this is really true. Are you really looking for the one to be really attached with? Are you a non pretensous person, just looking for the next person to have a good time with? Are you fine alone and just want a shag once and a while? Are you flying from shag to shag until you'll find someone with a personality worth investing real deep feelings? Or... You really never engage in superficial relations based on just having a good time/dating/sex and only go intimate when it's for real?
I'd like to think that there is someone out there that I will won't to spend the rest of my life with, but until I find him I'm enjoying myself and just having fun.
I think if people want to get married that OK, I've done it once and will never do it again, I just like having a good time.
As soon as I find the right small group of guys, the six or seven men who are right for me, my slutting about days are over. Or not. I dunno, I really can't see myself ever loving someone enough to be wholly committed to only one person at a time. I just would prefer to be with a few guys who all really love each other. It's not even a sexual thing, maybe more that I don't feel comfortable alone, and feel even worse when I'm dating someone and I can't be with them.
Sharing a deep relationship with someone is one of life's truly great gifts and I feel fortunate to have had a few relationships of great meaning. I look forward to someday having one that lasts through the ups and downs of life and having a family with that special girl, but until that time, I'm pretty content being single.
I personnally enjoy what life gives me. I can differentiate lust from love. I can lust over a person that doesnt suit my long term plan or I can have feelings for someone I dont lust over. Casual sex do I find it ok? Yes... it's fun as long as both parties are on the same page! Do I think it's immoral? Hell no, I need practice for the future wife, I need to learn a lot of stuff and find out a lot about myself. Now think about it, cheating is one thing but you arent cheating on anyone when you are single so what's holding you back? Society? Who decidy on what society should be? The human kind and you know what I think about what society says? I wont totally express myself on that I'll just say that I plead the fifth... Greg
