Ok so I've got kind of an odd, but totally awesome experience that I would like to share and see if anyone else has had a similar experience. I'm 21 years old (male), still a virgin which is very much by my own choice, I never wanted to have sex with random people, I figured I would wait for the person I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Well I found that person recently, and it is awesome, I love her so much and am finally giving in to sexual desires with her. Still haven't had sex but will soon. Now really what I'm here to tell is that my first attempt at giving her an orgasm was completely successful. Yes, I've never done anything sexual with anyone and I was instantly masterful, everytime since then I have given her multiple orgasms (this is all with my hands). It's not like they are easy for her either, she had only had 2 orgasms previously and her former boyfriend of 3 years never got her to orgasm. I find this so odd, I've heard all my life about how hard it is to get girls to cum, but I can just do it on demand, and it doesn't take very long either. Now I feel like much of this is due to many factors like how I was raised (very open family when it comes to sex, no shame), I'm intelligent and had done my research before hand, have very strong and dextrous hands (very good at guitar, been playing since I was 13) and most of all I think it's that I love her so much and just genuinely want to get her off so much. But damn, I'm confused by how easy I find it. Also I gave her an orgasm before I ever received an orgasm from anyone. Is there anyone else out there who is a part of this club? Or does the cheese stand alone?
You haven't had time to learn how to be a selfish lover. It probably comes easy to you because you waited for someone you love and you're really in tune with her.
you are the cheese, we all stand around you. I'm going to be taken by the farmer and I'll bet he gets me to come too. Good for you and for your girl. She is lucky to have you. Sometimes we react better sexually with one individual over another. Whatever it is, keep your focus on her, and you'll be rewarded in the end, as well.
I guess that's what I figured. It feels great to be able to do this for her. Hell I don't even care if the favor isn't returned. I just enjoy doing things to her. Also on a separate note, being in love is the greatest thing ever
I don't understand what you are trying to say but thanks i guess? And yes, me and her are so great together, we fell in love before the sexual stuff, but now we've discovered that we are incredibly sexually intune.
Ha, indeed, I really do care though. And in case anyone is thinking it, I guarantee she is not faking. I'm not gonna give you any details but just trust me.
I fake orgasms like that all the time when I want him to get his hands outta there It does get raw after like 2 orgasms when being fingered. And I agree with Meliai...wait 2 or 3 years...you will still care about your lover, but you'll care about you more. Tested and proven fact
That's entirely possible, but for what it's worth, I never really enjoyed masturbating that much, I mean sure I enjoy getting off, but it's never been a huge deal for me, and just as all my focus is directed on her, she is the same way towards me, all her focus is on getting me off. Well not all her focus she asks me to make her cum a lot, but then returns the favor once I do. And we are completely honest about everything, and not ashamed to talk about any aspect of sex. Really she is not the kind of person that could react that way if it wasn't real, she's embarrassed by how much writhing and yelling she does, she can't control it at all. Like I said, she is not faking, given that this is the internet and all, you'll just have to trust me on this now please make comments with this in mind.
Women can control their vaginal muscles like a pro. I have faked orgasms with my husband. Call me a bitch, but I actually do it because I love him so much I don't want him to feel less of a man because I can't achieve an orgasm through vaginal stimulation. It has to be clitoral, and that would make him feel like his dick isn't enough. All life revolves around a woman's vagina. sex, birthing, life, etc. We have great muscle control and can contract/expand these muscles at will. Women who fake orgasms aren't stupid. A simple "oooh, aaah" isn't going to convince anyone. And 99% of women who fake their orgasms downplay their previous sexual encounters. They love the one they're with so they tell him he's the best. I find it hard to believe she was with a man for 3 years but never had an orgasm. I could never be with a man for that long and never have an orgasm. I at least find ways to have sex with my husband so there's clit stimulation involved and I can have an orgasm. However, don't worry about it. If you love each other and she is faking it, then she'll do as I did and find ways to make it for real. If she's not faking it and she really went 3 years letting some guy sweat over her with no satisfaction of her own, then you are a lucky man because there's probably little in life you can do that would be worse than that and I wish you the best.
Arven - you don't say if you are giving her a clitoral orgasm, with your finger or tongue on her clitoris, or a G Spot orgasm, with two fingers on her G Spot inside her vagina. If you don't know how to do the latter, let me know. ---The G Spot Master
O well when I wrote this it was using my fingers inside her at first then finishing her off with my fingers on her clit. Since then though I've proceeded make her cum through clit during sex on my pubic region, clit with my mouth, g-spot with my fingers and g-spot from doggie style. Iv got a few more plans on the horizon to make her cum in fun ways (after reading that over it sounds a little like im saying iv only made her cum like 4 times haha, those are just the ways in which I've done it, she's cum many a times)
I can relate. When I lost my virginity I made my ex-gf at the time cum multiple times, and squirt and everything, before I was able to orgasm almost two hours into it. Add to that the fact that I'll eat a woman out for an hour because I am enjoying it. I feel naturally inclined to please. I`ve always, until recently at least, found it easier to make a woman cum than cumming myself. These days I`m resting on my laurels and being a selfish prick in bed for a change! :2thumbsup:
