Insecure of my private parts

I have a small, raised mole on the left upper side of my vagina. It's next to my clit, but on my vagina.
I have a niced sized, raised scar from a mole that I had to get removed a few years ago on my inner left thigh.
I have a raised mole on my left breast.

I'm really insecure about my moles on my private parts, especially the ones on my vagina.
Guys, does it/would it bother you if a girl has moles near their privates? I'm really self conscious about this.
And is there anything I can do to lighten the moles or make them look less noticable?
I have had sex before with one guy and he didn't seem to pay attention to the moles, but I'm still insecure about them.

 

Wouldn't care, you can't do anything about them anyways. They don't make sex complicated in any way, so it just doesn't matter. See the positive point in it: They make you special .
The only thing that would be a real turn-off would be a partner being too insecure about his body which keeps him from "getting lost in the moment".

 

I second what nateman said. I'm a doctor, I can let you know if its benign or if it could be a danger to your health.

 

I agree, and I am The Pope show me the mole and I will pray for it....Moles are fine and sexy. Do not worry about it, just enjoy sex and if it bothers the guy then that is his problem not yours.

 

It would not both me in the least.
Relax, enjoy, and don't fret over small imperfections. We all have them and they accumulate with age..

 

it wouldnt bother me at all


...unless it had giant thick long black whiskers coming out of it

 

Honey, is that a spider on your vagina.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

it would have to be a pretty damn big, hairy mole for it to be an issue.

 

ya man...if its not poking me in the eye I probably wouldnt even notice it

 

We can't judge without pics. You should pm them to everyone that's posted in this thread for an honest judgement.

But seriously, it really shouldn't be a problem. If your bf has an issue with it, then maybe you should find a new bf.

 

Stevie, try your best to be confident and feel assured that whomever is being sexual with you will be mostly thinking about your attractive qualities and rarely thinking about blemishes. We all have blemishes. Sometimes they can be looked at as something that ads character.

Also, you are not alone in feeling Insecure about your private parts. I've felt that way too, and many many other men and women do also. Just remember that the person is with you for many other reasons aside from how your vagina is. Remind yourself of your strengths and things that you find attractive about yourself in order to lift yourself up when you are feeling insecure. True lasting confidence will come, even if slowly.

 

Another Day....Another "First Post Wonder"....



Cheers Glen.

 

stevie..do not under estimate the gratitude most of us guys have when we finally get to the prize....dudes put up with some pretty nasty things when it comes to pussy...a mole is NOTHING on the grand scale of all the things that one might encounter while on a pussy expedition....we are disgusting vile creatures and its all about the pussy...dudes that can be choosy over moles on a beaver are few and far between...i have no doubt what so ever that many guys here are thinking ''a mole?i would eat that shit up.my wifes poony is so stinky and gross that i would trade that and a car for just a glimpse of young pussy''

 

Lol no offense to the op, but these replies on the first page are downright hilarious :2thumbsup:

 

So long as your GP has assured you that it is benign, then you shouldn't have any concerns.

 

A Clinic would charge about 50 to 75 dollars/ USA/ Out patient visit, to have it burned off. It will not hurt very much. Localized numbing agent..

 

let me ask you a question, and answer honestly

would you find a similar mole on a guys dick a turn off?

 

of course she would...because its disgusting and gross.....girls and boys genitals cannot be compared

 

Paaaaleeeze. I've had boyfriends that didn't care about their stank breath and gorilla feet. And there I was all stressed about how I looked?! HA. I soon learned to get over it. What he will notice is your insecurities in general. Sit back and enjoy the ride my dear.

 

So THIS is why nobody will lick you out!!!

Your insecurity, I mean, not your moles. I used to have a mole on my helmet but over time it magically disappeared, not that it bothered me anyway.

Girl, you sound like you have issues with yourself, if you fix those issues, I can assure you that the rest of your worries will disappear with them. Life's too fucking short to be worried about moles on holes.

And I can alsso assure you that, like a lot of guys have already stated, a guy will most probably not care, even if they notice. And if they do care then they have something wrong with their heads. I was seeing a girl with a raised mole close to her pussy, I thought it was her clit first time I fingered her. We were standing up and she didn't even say anything, just waited for me to realize. I realized after about 3 seconds. Of course, I moved to the right place immediately and the mole never bothered me, in fact after a while I came to like that mole as I would only see it when pleasurable activities were afoot! I could tell she was insecure about it because she refused to discuss it but it didn't stop her enjoying her experiences with "The King of Sex" (my nickname around these parts), so I just left it and carried on as normal.