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initiating socialization

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by sheeprooter, Sep 11, 2005.

  1. sheeprooter

    sheeprooter Member

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    do you ever feel like you are the only one who asks a specific friend to hang out? do you ever feel like you need to stop talking to that person, and wait for them to contact you, because you are afraid that they either dont like you, or will think that you like them in an un-platonic way?


    i like this girl, a lot, but im always the one to ask her to hang out. when we do hang out it seems like she certainly enjoys herself, but its just annoying when its not reciprocated, yknow? i dont want to smother her, i just want her to say, hey lets do this!
     
    sheeprooter, Sep 11, 2005
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  3. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    i myself tend to isolate so its the total opposite for me
     
    jerry420, Sep 11, 2005
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  5. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    heh... um...

    im too shy. if i do ask and get a rejection, i get more shy
     
    interval_illusion, Sep 11, 2005
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  7. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    a lot of us chicks were taught that you aren't supposed to ask a guy out, it goes against "the rules", which are basically complete and total bullshit. Why don't you ask her to plan your next outing, just say something like "wanna go do something friday? good, what do you want to do/where do you wanna go?"
     
    ihmurria, Sep 11, 2005
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