Okay, so here is my thing guys. I would like people's honest points of view to see if I can get some resolution here. I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin. I'm very attracted to women and but the opportunity hasn't presented itself to me and I'm not the type of guy to go hounding women like most of my friends. I'm wondering how attractive or unattractive being a virgin at my age can be. Some girls say they like it, while I know a lot of women prefer a man who knows what he's doing. Any advice for me?
Really? OP, don't worry. If someone sees your being a virgin as an issue, then that person is not worth your time. It's true that some people value experience and some people value chastity. But in the end, you are how you are. Some girls will find it very attractive and others won't. You will probably find a nice girl, probably not on the first try though. Experience comes soon enough. And try not to stress about sex. It's not such a big deal.
the women that say they like it are the same ones that say that the biggest turn on in a guy is a sense of humor.
there was a time in my life after yet another failed relationship that I decided not to just jump into another one. I went several years without sex while I was finding out who I was. I felt like a teenager when it came to seeking out a woman for a one night stand. I wasn't sure if I could function it had been so long. I did find a woman that I liked and felt comfortable with. Making it clear out front that I was not looking for a full time relationship I just needed to see where things were at. I told her that I trusted her and would she just let me borrow some pussy. She did saying that was the sweetest proposition she had ever had. We had a caring sharing night with moans and giggles. ive never see her again. honesty is always the best. be honest about your situation and borrowing it takes all the expectations away from both of you. it is more like a joined exploration. good luck
Well it doesn't really matter about what opinion someone may or may not have about you being a virgin because that doesn't change the fact that you ARE one. As with anything, every situation will be different, as with each woman's preference. Sounds like you need to be concerned more about meeting people than worried about what a woman might think about your virginity! Get to point A, then worry about point B!
A good woman won't give a damn. Plus it's fun sometimes to be the less experienced one...if you're S.O. is a good teacher, you get to learn new things and have a blast in the process...I would chill out about the whole thing. You sound like a level-headed guy and I'm sure the type of woman you would choose really wouldn't put any weight on that issue. I can tell you that from the opposite perspective, I could care less if my girl is a virgin or not. If she's got a good heart, I'm game.
I prefer men with experience and that doesn't make me a bad person. It's a matter of preference, that's all. Why are there so many virgin men in their 20s, these days? Where are all these women who are politically correct on internet forums and don't care for experience? My husband was an inexperienced man and that has cost me almost 20 years of sexual frustration. Been there, done that and I wouldn't wanna go through it again. Our sexual life has only recently improved, but only after I went as far as asking for divorce. If I was young again and a new boyfriend would tell me he was virgin, I'd give him all the incentive to go find and have sex with at least 10 women before we'd have sex. All my years of frustration was me, being the nice and supportive woman giving him time to finally learn and care that I also deserve an orgasm now and then. My fault entirely, because I've stayed so long. Ah, the stupid things women in love do! My message to women? Don't be who I was. I'm in an open relationship and I do fuck men in their 20s. But only the ones who have fucked enough women before me to know how to please a woman. And my pleasure comes first. I don't do charity fucks. You think I'm bad because of that? Go fuck a cactus while I hump my pillow. *Just kidding... Don't try fucking a cactus, please! *
You sound inhibited, poor at communicating and/or bed if after 20 years of marriage your man still wasn't experienced enough to please you. Perhaps you should have spent some of that 20 years doing something more than laying there, such as educating him with your experience. Just saying...
Make any assumptions you wish about me, as long as it makes you feel good, I'm ok with it. And if it makes you feel bad, but you're masochistic, I'm ok with it, too. Cheers.
