I know kegals can help. Has anyone had any luck with diet or commercial products like seminax. I have heard increasin hydration etc...
This is the only way I can think of that works. Also, I can totally understand wanting a bigger load, despite it being messier.
The volume of the ejaculation bears absolutely no relation to the ecstacy experienced from orgasm. There have been times when I've released a massive amount, but the orgasm itself has been fairly weak, whereas there have been other times where the orgasm has been so explosive that I've nearly passed out, but hardly ejaculated anything. Ask yourself what you're aiming for - what it feels like for you, or what it looks like for others.
Edge yourself. If you don't know what that is, just jerk off and bring yourself to the point of orgasm then stop immediately. Wait about 5-10 minutes then keep jerking and stopping before orgasm over and over again. Once your body can't stand not orgasming and wants to release that load, jerk it and let the orgasm happen — I guarantee your orgasms will not only be more intense, but your load will be tremendous. I have done this repeatedly and I have the type of orgasms that leave my legs tingling, my body twitching and loads of semen that I have never seen.
You can also try the Dribbler Method, which is similar, although it does requires you to be vastly more familiar with your bodily sensations & to have the will power to control them. Masturbate until the moment between when you feel the semen beginning to be released, but just before the orgasm kicks in. At which point don't just stop, but remove all contact with your penis altogether. Without the power of the orgasm the ejaculate will just dribble out. After a couple of minutes to recover repeat the process. As you haven't yet reached a climax this won't be a problem & with practice you can manage more & more ejaculations before you have to give way to the ultimate orgasm. The more ejaculations you manage the less ejaculate there will be remaining at the end - it may even be totally dry - but the force behind the orgasm will be so mind blowing it will certainly be worth it. This is a method that I discovered & named for myself - no doubt others have used it previously, but I had never seen it described anywhere else before or since. My personal record is 10 ejaculations, resulting in an orgasm from which I nearly passed out from. I also advise that if you plan on trying it, then you do it while you are alone in the house, as you may not be able to to control your screams of orgasmic ecstacy, which may prove somewhat embarassing.
I havenot tried that pineman and you could be right Although i have found if i abstain (hence the bigger load) i have more contractions and they are more intense. Edging as you point our is something i have done for 15 years of more. I will have to try what you suggest. I have experimented with supplements and increased hydration though with some results since i first posted this.
I think you should concentrate on pleasing your partner, instead of worrying about this trivial issue.
Jerking less. But for me, and I'm a weirdo, having a bladder that's ready to burst. The more I need to piss, the greater the cum load when I jerk.