I love someone but am not any longer 'inlove' with them.. I don't think I could ever survive without them, they are the only personwho has ever understood me,but I don't fancy them. We never have a sexual relationship,I'm begging to think it is me, maybe I'm depressed it makes me feel empty, I don't feel whoke and well the people I'm attracted to physically never like me or are to good for me . Do you think you can have both in arelationship,?ie, attraction,physical and a loving relationship? People say why do'nt you put the spark back,but there was never really one to start with. We've been together for 6yrs and I don't know what I'd do without them..