does anyone else have problems with impotence / ways of combatting it? i have recently started seeing a girl, and everytime we have tried to sleep together things have been going great for a while, then all of sudden my dick will go south on me, and no matter what I can't get it back up. I'm fairly sure this is all psychological, me thinking too much or becoming paranoid. I have no problem getting aroused looking at porn (rather worryingly) which has been my only sexual release for quite a while now. I'm a bit worried that my sexual response has become conditioned to masturbation, rather than other people. this girl is lovely, and we are really into each other, I want to be able to respond to her like I should.