ima nice guy......

U know the sayin "nice guys finish last"? well ima nice guy and i dont wanna say i have horrible experiances wit girls, but i dont have really good ones. When i like a girl i am super nice to them, i give them whatever they want (that i can afford) and i tell them whatever they want to hear (of course if it isnt true or i dont mean it, i wont say it). I do come off as a "wimp" as some say, but ive never had my ass kicked by ne one, and im not scrony. I have had like 2 enemies in my whole life, because i am really easy to get along wit and people dont tend to hate me. I dont know why im telling u people this, well i guess i need help. Of course it is hard to change some 1 when they have acted like that for most of their life. but i need to learn not to be soo nice, and to start being more of a "ladies man" as some should say. I am still just learning to be secure about myself, but i still have more to learn. so can some 1 please help me.

 

I wish I could give you some really great advice on how to score a chic
but no one can make that happen for you...just try to be yourself not what you think some mystery woman wants....
I personally like a nice guy...someone who listens to what is being said not just waiting for their turn to talk...someone who enjoys life...and who is well.... sheese anyway.... like I said just be yourself

 

Hi, I think I am the right person to help you.
But I won't. HAHAHAHA.

Man, chicks like my attitude and I am sure some chick comes in this thread and tells me she wants me because I was not being nice.

 

It's good to at least be assertive. Even if you're super nice and do/say way too much shit for her, don't let her walk on you. A woman isn't going to respect someone that lets themself be used as a door mat.

 

when they say they like nice guys , its not so ....even if thats what they think and what they are going for.....they only hang out with nice guys to go shopping n stuff ....the first chance they get to be controled by a stupid hatefull asshole who doesnt care a shit about them ....they go for it99%of all girls 99%of the time ....

 

haa haa wtf


ok totally disregard what I said and yea listen to this guy...lmao

 

i have scored wit chicks, but the ones i have scored wit arent the top of list. Im not trying to b an asshole, but im not at the bottom of the list. I c myself as a desent looking guy, and i think i diserve a relly cool and hott looking girl.

 

yea u disurv taht n i tink teh gurlz sud undrstint

 

if you arnt self absorbed ,masoganistic , misanthropic , pittyless to the point of sociopathy , and agressive and uncooperative .....theese bitches may like you but they are fucking someone who is .

 

well,

 

Thats so bitter... but a part of me has trouble disagreeing.

 

It's unfortunate that there aren't more guys out there like you! You want a girl to like/love you for who you are. Be yourself and be confident -- girls do like that. That's why so many girls end up with assholes. They are attracted to that confidence that so many jerks seem to have.

If a girl only wants you for what you can buy her then you don't want her anyway. Save yourself the heartache and stay true to yourself. When you are least expecting it the right (and very lucky) girl will come along.

 

im not realy bitter at all .....im not looking for some girl to controle me ....its just that im surprised that this is the way it is ....and after a lifetime of observation ....i see this more and more .....it realy is what women do .....i dont want to be an asshole or a 'nice' guy .....id just like everyone to open their eyes n see what they do .....cause they should realise their talkin aint up to their acting .

 

Just the stupid ones.

 

most people havnt a clue as to what they realy want and why they want it ....when i hear a girl talkin bout a guy sayin they are so nice n stuff ..... i see them talkin to them and screwing some asshole later .....

 

well I guess it had to be said right...

 

I do agree with you, Makno, but once a girl gets fed up with dealing with jerks she learns to appreciate nice guys. Unless she's stupid, that is.

A guy who is nice, intelligent, artistic, and spiritual would be damn close to perfect in my book. Good looking is nice, but not if that's his best quality.

 

yes that would be the sane logical way to look at things .....but ive seen hundreds of girls say that and believe that , but eventualy do the oposite ....and good looks dont seem to count as much as meanness and uncareing.....an ugly asshole gets 25 times the play as good looking nice guys .....

 

Believe me, I've dealt with my fair share of guys like that. In my case though they've pretended to be cool & nice. Girls who go for jerks get what they deserve as far as I'm concerned.

The only thing about a nice guy that would turn me off is if he was too smothering or clingy. Does this make any sense?

 

yes guys who pretend to be nice guys , but are realy anal retentivr angry controleing haters of life and no fun . but are just myrter complex passive agressive killjoys ....there out there ....BEWARE any self professed nice guys ....they may be insecure and cloaking the big indifferent but tartuforical hipocritical asshole inside